I had it this ************ put his hand on me cuz i told him not to say nothing else to me . I dont want to be wit him no more and im gettin an abortion on monday and that hurt me so because i dont want to get an abortion but i really dont want to have a baby by somebody who s gonna put their hands on me. What should I do?
2006-08-11 06:05:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If by put his hands on you, you mean he hit you then by all means leave. Leave and don't look back. Please don't let him sweet talk you into 'giving him another chance because he's a changed man and things will be different'. It's bull$hit. As far as the baby goes, I'm pro-choice so I think you have every right to choose what you want to do. BUT I really think you should try to hold off on making any decisions until things have calmed down a little. Not so you can get back with him and keep the baby, but so you have some time to calmly consider keeping the baby on your own. Good luck in whatever you choose to do and I truely hope you don't put yourself back into a position with this man where he can hit you again, because he will.
2006-08-11 06:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leaving a man is one thing, but killing a human being for someone else's actions is taking it too far. That baby didn't ask to be conceived, but it was. As a mother you are responsible for that child and you need to take responsibility for your actions of allowing yourself to become pregnant in the first place. If you don't want the child then give it up for adoption to a good family who does want it - but killing it is just plain wrong!
2006-08-11 13:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by heartforhelping 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't let anyone put their hands on you. Please don't have abortion. That child didn't do anything to you. Find someone who wants it. There are allot of people that would be glade to have a baby. Check in newspaper, sometime people will run adds asking for a baby.They are willing to pay for lawyers fees and court cost.
2006-08-11 13:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a step back. Chill........ Make your choice not in the heat of the moment. If you leave for abuse its ALWAYS a good thing. But leave in ASSURANCE so you wil STAY gone and not go back and forth. The baby thing should not be based on him but on you. You have time to think about the baby and what you want after you leave
2006-08-11 13:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by the answers are there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
??? you are missing the point
what does having a hand on you have to so with an abortion...?
NOTHING
have the baby, do not stop a life because YOU deside too
he can get an order to stop you, you are not in the right frame of mind to do this.
2006-08-11 13:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not fair your baby did not ask to be here .... how selfish to not love your baby because of him leave and never look back have a lawyer take care of support or just get him out of picture totally
2006-08-11 13:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by squawwitoutamule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should the baby pay for what you did for one. you can still have the baby and give it up or take care of it with out him.
2006-08-11 13:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by wildfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A decision as important as this, Life or Death, should not be made under such stressful circumstances...Please postpone this until you can decide whats best...father excluded.
2006-08-11 13:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it you can always raise a kid alone
2006-08-11 13:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋