how many people out there are really happy in there relationship?

Question

There are so many people out there with unhappy love lives and relationships. Tell me your true love stories. Dig deep
Nothing rude

Good girls and boys. Brilliant to get some true love answers. And for those who are still not convinced get meeting the right person.

Answer 1

XXXXXXXXX If you spent a day, week, year in our home you'd be pleasantly surprised at all the love in our home. We have been married 13 years. Married on our third date. Have four beautiful children. My husband is a Sgt. in the Army and fortunately is home most of the time now except for rare two week trips in the field. I asked my kids if they won the lottery what is the first thing they would want? Would you believe it took my daughter 20 minutes to answer. In her eyes I could see she was soul searching for a good answer. She's nine. And still she hadn't said something she really needed. Our 12 year old only wants more video games. And our 20 year old all she wants is to finally pay off her car. How proud of we of her, she pays $444 a month and $350 in insurance and haven't asked us for a time. The only part I don't like is she's always working and have no personal time but she doesn't complain. We both spend a lot of quality time with our kids and love doing family activities and are very close to our in-laws and siblings. My kids hate to go outside of spend nights at the homes of their friends but every weekend we have atleast four kids form different families skleeping over. Even our 20 year old has her gf sleeping over or her bf almost all the time. We were watching a tv show last night were the mom always cried. My daughter (20) asked me why she has never seen me cry? None of my kids have. Come to think of it, they saw me cry when my brother died at 24 , 7 years ago. I don't think they ever even seen my husband and I argue. He and I are two peas in a pot. We compromise alot. We get angry at eachother for piddly **** but we never go to bed mad and he phones me two or three times a day just to say he loves me. Anyone who knows us will tell you what a great relationship we have with eachother and our kids. And I can go on forever and give you stories about our lives. But I'll end it here.

Answer 2

Me. I love my hunny more than anything else. After being in love two other times in my life and getting my heart broken...I finally found a healthy, happy relationship. At 26, I thought I would be single or just date forever. I gave up n serious relationships. Then I met mine. We majored in the same thing in college and classes brought the two of us (who were so different socially) into the same realm long enough for us to get to know each other. We spent 10 days together (with others) on a field trip and that did it. We have been together for 4 years and will be married next October.

I've been in MANY relationships (mostly bad ones) and know now how to appreciate a good thing now that I have it. I treat him differently than others I have been with (more respect, less fighting, letting go of the petty stuff) and I get what I need from him in return. We communicate well, sex was great from day one and only gets better with time, and I have found myself unable to be away from him for too long.

I believe that ANYONE could find this kind of happiness if they just tried hard enough. You've got to keep your standards, not settle for anything, and be willing to give as much as you want back without even thinking about it.

Answer 3

My husband and I have been married for 20 years and have three children. We love being married to each other. We both waited until we were married to have sex and have no regrets that we are each other's only partner. Sex gets better and better through the years as we love and appreciate each other more. We treat each other with love and respect and encourage and complement each other. We always go out for a date once a week and occasionally enjoy a weekend away--just the two of us. We spend a lot of time together as a family. And best of all we all laugh a lot and have a lot of fun.

If I could communicate just one important point to those who are looking for love and want marriage, it would be that the person you marry (or even live with) is so important to what your life is going to be like. It will shape where you will live, how many children you will have, what interests you will pursue, and what dreams you will reach.

Both my husband and I are better, stronger, kinder, and more capable people because we chose our life partner wisely. I ache for those who choose poorly and miss out on so much.

Answer 4

I met my man on line and THAT night we talked for 9.5 hours! We went out two days later!

It's funny HOW we met . . . we were both sent the "junk mail" about this dating site. We both joined the "free" part and I took a chance that his ID was also his e-mail address. Since we joined only the free part, we were unable to communicate. He wasn't really looking for a relationship and I never contact anyone who doesn't have a picture with their profile. But there was just something about his profile essay that made me take the chance!

He is incredible, caring, sweet, VERY respectful and believes in communication!

Very romantic, he's always surprising me with little gifts or says things incredibly sweet to me! Of course, I do the same for him!

We have much in common, we have the same values, are looking for the same things in a relationship and get along GREAT!

We have built everything on trust, honesty and being faithful to each other.

We are like two peas in a pod, as they say! He's genuine and for the first time in my life, I finally beleive in true love and what it SHOULD be all about! He's my best friend and could never be replaced!

YES! I am TRULY HAPPY in my relationship! Our key word is "TOGETHER"!

TY for the opportunity to answer this! I LOVE telling how he and I became a "we"!

Answer 5

True love is a myth! You will think you have true love but the minute that person crosses you the wrong way people are ready to say its was a mistake, or lets just be frenz or some crap like that. Humanity has lost the essence of love and is no longer willing to compromise and or try to work out things.......that's why divorce lawyers are so rich!

Answer 6

Marriage and any other kind of relationship is give and take. It's never 50/50 - sometimes it's 90/10 - but eventually it all equals out because you have your own 10% days too! I've been married once before, got divorced after four years of abuse and one child. I remarried two years later - a man with five children and we have one together (yes, 7 children - all grown but 2) and we're still happy after 13 1/2 years. We've had our share of trouble though (raising all those kids!), but we've come through each trial stronger than before.

Answer 7

I am very happy in my relationship. When I was 18 I went to a kibbutz in Israel. Two weeks later I met the most wonderful person, I instantly knew that I would spent my life with him. We were both attracted to each other when we saw eachother the first time. And three days later we kissed for the first time. We have been together for eleven years now (married for nine). It has not allways been easy, as we come from different countries, and the law is very strict in bringing your spouse with you to our countries (Denmark and South Africa). We are the best of friends, soulmates, and we love to spend time together.

Answer 8

Internet Romance!!!

I met my fiance a year and a half ago. We had first talked on the internet about 3 years ago. We talked off and on and slowly grew to know more about each other and realized we had alot in common. He lived in Ohio at the time and his family had recently moved here to Texas b/c his dad got a job transfer. As time progressed, he said he wanted to come down here and meet me. He suggested Christmas of '04 b/c he would be down here with his family. I said sure, so we exchanged phone numbers. Well, when he called me, I chickened out! Didn't even answer my cell phone. So, he went back to Ohio and I apologized for being so chicken...lol. He forgave me, and asked if I would like to give it another shot. I said ok, and I promised I would go through with it. Beginning of January '05 he told me he had a job interview in Texas and he wanted to meet me. So, on my birhtday, January 4, 2005 we met! It was love at first sight, literally! I knew from the moment I met him that he was the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. So, we dated and he proposed to me at The Dallas Arboretum in October '05. We are getting married next month, September 23, 2006, and I have never been more deeply and madly in love in my entire life!!! I thank God every night for sending me my knight in shining armor!

-The End-

Answer 9

so i met this guy threw a friend of mine when we first met we start chatting and hang out and just everything matched my dream guy! and he says the same!
it's been about 8 months and we both are madly in love with each other! I'm moving in to our home we are getting a bird... He is just a sweetie! we cook together,,, he rubs on me makes me feel like a queen... i do the same for him!
I know he is the one because when we look deeply into our eyes and kiss... and when we sleep in together and share our knowlege of whatever is on our minds! His family loves me as well as my family loving him!
and well he is off to london today... and i already miss him and my belly is aching for him to come back into my arms!
We have our future planed out or at least an outline! His smile i can never get out of my mind and him his self is always on my mind! Never exits my thoughts!
well my lunch break is got to keep busy so i can see my sweetie sooner!
Mad luv to ya!

Answer 10

I thought I had a great relationship. Turns out that she has been unhappy since the beginning (15 years).
Now we are working on it in counceling. Turns out I was equally unhappy...I just didn't know it.
Hopefully the therapy will work. I hate all the unhappiness!