2006-08-11 05:52:21 · 20 answers · asked by princess 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
It isn't any big accomplishment to attract a guy (particularly a teenage one) that way. No matter who the girl/woman is, if she dresses that way, sure, she'll get attention; but all she's getting attention over is body parts (that half the population has) and the suggestion that that's what she's "about".
People don't have to be beautiful or have great figures or anything else to catch attention by showing off body parts or suggesting sex with clothing.
The real trick is to catch eyes while dressing in a non-suggestive way. Not everybody can do that, which is probably why so many girls/women resort to body-parts approach. To catch eyes the trickier way a person has to have an attractive face, attractive hair, beautiful hands, feet and/or legs. She has to know how to move in an attractive way, have something unique about her, be feminine, etc. Will this stuff attrack the guy who "is just looking for one thing?" No. You would, however, be surprised at how many guys this type of appeal attracts - and when you attract someone this way it is because he was attracted to "the whole you" or "the real you" and not just body parts. Anyone can show body parts. Not everyone knows how to be all-around beautiful whether or not they have some flaws. Work on that. You'll attract a higher caliber of guy.
2006-08-11 06:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dress sexy all the time (if by sexy, you mean low-cut shirts and mini skirts), but that's because I always dress like that. I don't think there's anything wrong with showing a little skin to try to impress. But if it's not your thing, be careful not to go overboard. Just wear either a top or a bottom that you would usually wear, and match it with an item that shows a bit more skin. That way, you avoid him thinking lowly of you based on how you're dressed. Hope this helps!
2006-08-11 06:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't dress sexy if that's the only way to get his attention. If you want to though that's ok lol. You should dress to get some attention, but not so much that everyone will stare at you with "the look" lol. try to act flirty around him or hang around his guy friends and see what he likes and stuff. Hope this Helps!
2006-08-11 05:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by Megan C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dressing "sexy" might make him, and the people around you think you're a slizut.
Instead of sexy you should dress cute.
2006-08-11 05:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Rachelle d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't. Why? Because then you are attracting him by your body and physical assets, and wouldn't you want him to like you for more than that?
That's rather shallow behavior. Attract him with your personality, your sense of humor, your interest in him and others...in other words, show him what a unique and special person you are.
That will make more of an impression (unless he's a "shallow" person and only interested in looks).
2006-08-11 05:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-04 09:06:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope dont dress sexy. Be yourself!. Dont even have fantasies. Just be as calm as possible.
2006-08-11 05:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should like you regardless. If he is not that into you, then quit wasting your time. There are so many other guys out there that will like you for you. Don't waste your time on a guy that might not be worthy of you.
2006-08-11 06:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by NIKKI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys don't look at clothes unless you're not wearing any. Don't try to get a boy to notice you with style. It won't work unless you're trying to get me or a gay guy to notice you. Good luck.
2006-08-11 06:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by Lord Rupert Everton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont dress SExxyy .. BE urself.. dont degrade yourself jst for a boy to notice you... if r personality isnt enff he is not worth it .. that advice works in ANY sitiation .. i hope i was to some assitstance.. GOOD lUckk
2006-08-11 05:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by Jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋