Okay... My ex and I have been on and off since March. Mainly when he finds someone he wants to see he blows me off like I don't exsist. But around that things are ushually fine. Its happening a second time and I am not sure if I should keep trying for our daugher or if I should just give up and walk away. What do you think?
2006-08-11 05:43:05 · 16 answers · asked by erinjl123456 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would think that this is as hard on your daughter as it is you. Getting your hopes up and then pulled out from under both of you. Your daughter will learn quickly that she can't trust men or people. It will be up to you to teach her that isn't true for everyone and to also teach her self-respect. We aren't meant to be walked on or feel like we can be easily discarded, we need love and respect. Right now love you and your daughter more than you love him and you will make good decisions.
2006-08-11 05:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying for what ? For the next time he leaves for someone else ?? What kind of life is that for you and your daughter. Move on and find someone who wants to be there all the time not just when they have nothing else to do. Do you want to show your daughter that this is the way a man should treat a women ?
2006-08-11 05:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to subject yourself to staying in a bad relationship just because of your child, if he is making you second place in his life then let him go,he will always be apart of your life since the two of you share a child together but it doesn't mean that you have to be with him, he can still be apart of his child's life, but it takes two people to make a relationship work and he is showing that he really doesn't have any respect for you as his partner if he is blowing you off all the time and acting like you don't exist...
2006-08-11 06:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things are not "fine".
You are confusing the fact that he has nothing better to do with things being "fine".
Have some self-respect and leave. Your daughter will learn about relationships through your example. Don't be a lousy example.
2006-08-11 05:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let it go. Because he is using you . Its a different kind f use though. Its like if things don't go right in his other relationship he comes back to you because he knows you will that him back,no matter where he has been. Do be that kind of women to him because that's the type of woman, men step on and do what they want to. Be strong move on don't be his door mate.You deserve better.
2006-08-11 05:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Nita C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl comon now i think u need to end it, i know it will be hard but what happens if you do end up havin a daughter and he finds someone else then what?sorry that was kinda harsh but i think someone needed to tell u that so end it tell him u cant go out w/ someone knowing that they could leave you at any moment for a nother girl trust me one time he might not come back so id say tell him its over and pick up a hobby to reduce stress and get him off your mind
hopefully my 14 year old advice helped let me know w/ a comment will u?
2006-08-11 05:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by skflaramee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to just leave him. Do you really want your daughter to grow up and see him keep leaving you for someone else? Would you want your daughter in a relationship like that? You need to think about her well being.
2006-08-11 05:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get the heck away from this player. He doesn't know the meaning of committment. Love yourself and your daughter to know that you can both have someone to count on and not a booty hungry low life who doesn't care about breaking your heart. Trust me, I've been there and I know it is hard and it will take a minute for you to recover, but please get the heck away from him, girl. Love is waiting to find you. Get free.
2006-08-11 05:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same position. I'm three weeks pregnant and I haven't talked to the guy I'm pregnant by for almost 2 weeks. I love him a lot and I want us to make it because of our child. I think you should stick in there a little while longer and see how it works out. That's what I'm going to do. If you love him you should you try to make it work that what's I'm going to try to do.
2006-08-11 05:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
give up and walk away he sounds like he only wants you when its convienint for him. let him be in his daughters life but find a man who wants you all the time.
2006-08-11 05:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by silver_princess16_03 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋