She is all braggy and boosy now and has started hanging around all the cool ppl. She is ignoring me and has started teasing ppl. She is also very mean to me. We were best friends. Plz tell me how i should apologize to her. Even though it's her fault. She doesnt even miss me, but i really wanna make up with her. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-11 05:28:53 · 9 answers · asked by gunnerz4lyfe! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is all braggy and bossy now and has started hanging around all the cool ppl. She is ignoring me and has started teasing ppl. She is also very mean to me. We were best friends. Plz tell me how i should apologize to her. Even though it's her fault. She doesnt even miss me, but i really wanna make up with her. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
2006-08-11 05:44:55 · update #1
I'm DESPERATE!!!
2006-08-11 05:46:03 · update #2
First off you shouldnt apologize to her cause u have done nothing wrong. Apologizing to her would make it seem as of you are beneath her or as if yor nothing. Now for a good honest answer, it seems as if she doesnt want to be your friend, and you shouldnt try to force it. It migt be hard at first not to have her around but in the long run you'll realize that she isnt the kind of friend you should be around if she treats you this way. You deserve better.
2006-08-11 05:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by garichick4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you say is so contradicting. First you say "just had a fight" then you say "ignoring me" and you also say "braggy and boosy" and "mean to you".
Do you live together, next door, or work at the same place that you can say the above things.
Give your so called best friend some space and let her spread her wings. If she misses your friendship she will get over the fight and get back with you. Just smile and be pleasant whenever you see her and don't listen to all the teasing, etc. Apparently she is using your fight as a way to move into another group of friends who are probably enjoying her friendship only because of the bad mouthing and gossip she can tell them about you. Sad but people are like that.
And if you never rekindle your friendship, so what, there are plenty other friends to be found.
HURTS, but you will get over it.
2006-08-11 05:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She ignoring you, teasing you and mean to you, and you want to apologize to her for what reason? You guys grew apart, she is now hanging out with other people, who you deem as cool. I'm sorry to tell you this, but your friend being a b*tch and I'm almost positive that your friendship is over. Do not apologize!!! It's time to move on and meet new people and make new friends. It sucks, but in the long run it's probably for the best.
2006-08-11 05:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by jtj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was never a TRUE friend then. You shouldn't apologize to her. She is the one in the wrong here it seems. If she was a true friend, she would not be doing this. If she doesn't miss you, move on. If she realizes that she has messed up, she'll come around and apologize. If not, her loss. It's not cool to tease ppl and taunt ppl. You don't need ppl like that. YOU SHOULD NOT APOLOGIZE. SHE IS IN THE WRONG.
2006-08-11 05:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by mcentiremadness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't miss you then why should you miss her never sell your self short for anybody. If she was as half as a good friend as you are for wanting to go back to her abuse she would not treat you the way she does. My opinion would be to leave her be and find a friend that's going to respect you the way you would them. If you haven't done anything wrong why apologize and give her the glory of knowing that you are desperate to be her friend. Let her apologize to you if she's truly your friend she will if not don't sweat it move on. Good Luck!!!!
2006-08-11 05:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should just stop talking to her. If she isn't treating you like a friend you shouldn't be her friend.
I don't think you should apologize to her it is her fault!She should to you.If she was your true friend she wouldn't be mean to you and she would at least miss you!
I hope this helps...sorry if it doesn't
2006-08-11 05:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by From First to Last's Emily. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was acting like that, you dont need that kind of friend. No apology is necessary. Find new friends.
2006-08-11 05:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was never a friend to you. Just leave her be and move on don't act like you are bothered by this is will only give her more to be happy about.
2006-08-11 05:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by Brooklyn Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and explain how much it hurts you seeing your friendship tearing apart.
tell her that although you see differences in her, she is still your friend and you are there not to change her, but improve her well-being.
be supportive of one another and talk often. that way, communication will bridge you once again.
good luck!
2006-08-11 05:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by tweetytweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋