I HAVE BEEN WITH MY FIANCE FOR 11 YEARS AND FOR 10 OF THOSE YEARS WE HAVE USED THE WITHDRAWAL METHOD. WE HAVE NOT EVER TRIED TO CONCEIVE AND NEVER GOT PREGNANT WITH DOING THIS. NOW WE ARE GOING TO BEGIN TRYING DO YOU THINK SOMETHING IS WRONG(INFERTILE) OR DOES HE JUST HAVE AN ENORMOUS AMOUNT OF DISCIPLINE..lol.. WE WILL BE TRYING WITHIN THE NEXT MONTH?
2006-08-11 05:20:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Maybe he is just good at it lol
or it could even be that his sperm count isn't real high, but that with actually trying it may be just fine. You should get to know how your body works too!
http://www.fertilityfriend.com
2006-08-11 05:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in college my Human Sexuality professor told us that using the pull out method will 99.9 % of the time not get you pregnant. Of course he said the only way to keep from getting pregnant with the pull out method was if the guy had good control and didn't come in you. He said that even if the guy let off precum that there were generally not enough sperm to fertilize an egg. Of course he didn't stress that we use the method because of the possiblity of getting STD's. But if you and your husband are monogamous then you should have nothing to worry about. Just because you haven't gotten pregnant doesn't mean that you are infertile. So relax and have fun trying to get pregnant! Oh and be sure to chart your basal body temperature every morning and check your cervical fluid. Good luck!
2006-08-11 06:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by estephania2182 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have just lucked out, or maybe you got pregnant and miscarried before you realized. Happens all the time. You should read up on ovulation and fertility so you know when is the best time to try to conceive. Good luck and happy trying!!
2006-08-11 05:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id try for a few months (2-3) while monitoring your ovulation. What works best for me is the clearblue easy digital monitor, its expensive but well worth it. Theres no guessing, its ovulating or not. If u have no luck after that, go see your gyno.. There are things that you can try. Clomid and or glucophage are used in aiding pregnancy. They say that the chance of pregnancy with precum is so slim but it does happen, you may just need the full "load" lol. Anyway best of luck to ya! I wouldnt worry about having him tested for atleast a yr of monitoring and trying.
2006-08-11 05:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by misstikal311 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it a shot and see how it goes. Make sure you talk to your doctor about trying to conceive and he/she might be able to make you aware of some things that can help. If after a few months, you have no luck, then discuss it with your doctor again and he/she can make other suggestions. Good luck!
2006-08-11 05:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hubby and I have been using the pull out method for years, and I have not concieve unless we have planned too. More than likely he is fertile, just very discipled.
2006-08-14 18:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by mjm2283 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋