im kind of embarrassed by asking this question. im a virgin, so i dont know much about having sex. i want to know how normal people have sex. is it just like the things u see in pornos or is it different? does it hurt? do u really have to touch ur partners genitals?
2006-08-11 05:04:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
LMAO you are cute. It's not so much like pornos in that it's not like jackhammer humping and it takes more to get a girl off. But ya, you do touch each others' genitals and stuff, basically just exploring your partner and trying to get them to have an orgasm. It won't seem so disgusting in a couple of years.
2006-08-11 05:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
Real sex is a lot more gentle and sensitive than in pornos, and there's usually a lot more kissing and a lot more touching of people's bodies, not just their genital parts. It's also a lot more about mutual pleasure.
Yes, you're probably going to want to touch the partner's genitals, as it's going to feel nice to give the other person pleasure, and there are lots of ways to give pleasure that don't involve vaginal penetration with a penis.
When you do find a partner that you want to have sex with, take things slow, and don't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. You want it to feel good for both of you.
2006-08-11 06:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Pornography is just like any other movie: it is entertainment, it is not necessarily realistic, it usually is what the people making the film want the audience to think about sex or it is their own fantasy of what they want sex to be like or wish it was. "Real" sex may be made of components of what you view in porno, just as what you see in a movie might have a parallel in your real life. Will it ever be exactly the same? Probably not. Also, most of the widely available porn is geared toward men, so what you see in them is usually an expression of what is popularly believed to be sexually attractive to men. But, you must ask yourself: is this really what I think is attractive, or is it just what someone else thinks is attractive or desirable? Just like magazines, porn caters to the popular culture's ideas of beauty and sex and isn't necessarily reflected in reality.
Depending on the state of relaxation of the people (I'm assuming you are a female, because pain is generally a concern there) involved, pain may or may not be present. Pain will also depend on whether or not a person has been penetrated before, as in masturbatory activity or from use of tampons, and also if she has an intact hymen, which is a piece of skin frequently found near the vaginal opening and which might tear or rip during insertion of a penis. I recommend you research your own genitals as well as become familiar with the risks for pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections. These are both pragmatical considerations before engaging in intercourse. You also should think about the emotional aspect of sex; what does sex signify to you, how does it affect the relationship you have between yourself and your partner, how does your partner think about sex and sexual relations, etc.
2006-08-12 05:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 1⤋
I have touched my girlfriend but I am 19 and still a virgin we are not in any rush. I have heard it is not like in the pornos so rest assured
2006-08-11 05:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by coolhandjoe 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Sex the first time for a guy doesn't hurt at all but it goes REAL quick but for some girls it will hurt their first time. As others said it is nothing like pornos. Sex it the ultimate way to expose yourself to somebody and I hope your first time is with somebody you love. Do you have to touch their junk? I like to, heck you may even find that you like to go oral on them. You will just have to experiment and find out for yourself.
2006-08-11 18:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
1. If you have to ask, you are too young. 2. When you do have sex most partners find it very appealing to touch each other's genitals. It's not bad at all.
2006-08-11 05:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by jessiekatsopolous 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋
How old are you?
2006-08-11 05:32:46 · answer #7 · answered by Snoopy 1 · 4⤊ 7⤋
ur funny u want to know about sex so u can do it but u dont want to touch ur partners genitals ur hilarious
2006-08-11 05:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 14⤋
if you touch your partners genitals then you have a 98% chance of getting a life threatening disease. believe me, i am a certified doctor with a degree in the knowledge of genitals. if you don't believe me then i will come over there and shove my degree so far up your *** that will forget about everything else i just told you.
also, if you don't you it, you will certainly lose it.
2006-08-11 05:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by dalafala 2 · 2⤊ 28⤋