I'm getting married next year and i would like to invite my x inlaws but should I?
2006-08-11 04:46:03 · 17 answers · asked by angel22fya 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Other - Holidays
It makes a nice change, that someone actually gets on with their in-laws,( even if they are your X's parents). you do`nt say if you have kids, if you do they would love to have nanny & granddad there I am sure, make sure your husband to be has no objections, then go ahead and invite them, and have a lovely wedding, and every best wishes for the future.
2006-08-11 21:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by madge 51 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations. As a future psychiatrist, I professionally advise you not to. You are getting married to a different spouse, different in-laws, and a different family. Inviting your ex-in-laws would show some ties with your DIVORCED past. Start fresh with your new, husband and in-laws, not your old ones. Make it a COMPLETELY fresh start. Inviting them would be in extremely poor taste and would show (no matter what your fiance or any of his family says) that you miss some part of your old marriage: your ex-in-laws. Please, don't let that happen; that's the last thing you need/want. You're probably thinking, "If I don't invite them, they'll be upset." In that case, explain to them, "You know how much I'd like to invite you, but I don't think it would be the best thing to do in starting my new marriage; it would be somewhat awkward." With this, they'll understand, and no feelings will be hurt. I hope you listen to my advice and make the right decision. Good luck!
2006-08-12 08:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by ItsScriptural 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not invite the x inlaws to your wedding. Although you obviously still have a great rapport with them, you need to consider your husband and his family as well.
2006-08-11 12:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Linda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you and your fiance are comfortable with it then yes. At the time of my wedding my husband had a very good relationship with his ex-girlfriend's mother and I made sure to invite her because I had no animosity towards her and I thought she was a very lovely lady. It is your wedding do what makes you feel right.
2006-08-11 05:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
visit the marriage!! if its massive component i'm particular you'll particularly delight in your self. as well if your mom can watch your son then thats even extra effective! They likely meant no longer to ask your son because you havent particularly been contained in the relations too lengthy and they dont comprehend how your son acts. and possibly children were no longer invited. in case you visit the marriage and be conscious children then likely in hardship-free words children from the instant relations were invited. in spite of the undeniable fact that dont get indignant both way. for my area, you have not any proper to be because you've in hardship-free words been courting this guy for 6 months and infrequently comprehend the bride and groom.
2016-11-29 22:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can feel your pain. Not that I have an answer, but I remember my in laws didn't allow my brother to come because he was gay. Is that something??
No wonder I am divorced from the bunch.
Be careful and check with your hubby -to-be or many years of resentments might follow
2006-08-11 04:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by greenie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations!!!! Ask the man your going to marry. His opinion is the one that really counts. He needs to be comfortable with having your x in-laws at the wedding.
2006-08-11 14:50:32 · answer #7 · answered by Chi_Indy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your wedding, sure, but you're getting MARRIED to a man. So, how does HE feel about this? The decision has to be unanymous. If he's not too keen on the idea, scratch it. If he is, then tallyho!
2006-08-11 04:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Saffire♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel close to them and you must or you wouldn't want to invite them, then talk to your fiance, and if he's OK with it, invite them to your wedding.
2006-08-11 07:57:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u divorced your x husband not his family i'm sure u are still friends with some or most of them see how they feel about wanting to come and i say go for it at least u have a while to think about it please make sure u talk it over with your fiance we wouldn't want any surprise from either parties
2006-08-11 16:03:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋