I really wanna help her through. We are currently starting our exams I don't want her to get disrupted by this break up of 10 months relationship. The reason of the break up was that that jerk had another girl. It's quite hard for her because she believed his fake promises & lies. I just dont want her to be sad & get over it quickly.
2006-08-11 04:41:45 · 21 answers · asked by ♥Butt3rfLyKis5ez 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be there for her. Unfortunately this is something she needs to get herself out of, and no matter what you want to do, she could sit in a depression state because she doesn't want to cope with breaking up.
2006-08-11 04:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 15:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to go shopping or something that keeps her distracted, you know ''girls night'' and not making her think about her ex. Try to make her go happy while you're at it. She should be with the people she really loves(family, friends, etc.) It should help. Also try not to bring up the subject about her ex it's just gonna make her get depressed more than what she already is. You need to always be there for her especially in this kind of cases.Tell her that she is worth more and she deserves betterthings than her boyfriend. She's gonna need some time to get this problem over with, you can't rush her. Breaking up It's a really hurtful thing for a girl so just give her some time. Laterz
2006-08-11 04:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by super girl 01 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her! She need you right now! This is an emotionally tough time for her right at this time especially with exams coming up.
Plan on purpose to do some fun things together to get her mind off of the breakup. She'll get over it eventually but she needs her friends to be there for her and help her to get through this better.
2006-08-11 05:21:31 · answer #4 · answered by December Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let her be sad. Just sit with her, rub her back as she cried. The more she grieves and better she'll be in a shorter time.
Also, you might want to encourage her to go for walks in the park, perhaps even study outside with you.
You're a good friend. I know this will be tough on you too... And try not to let her wallow in her sorrows. If she talks about it for more than 10 minutes, change the subject. She'll get through this. We all do.
2006-08-11 04:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Saffire♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so glad you are so concerned, you are a really good friend! Girls gotta stick together.
As for helping her, take her mind off of it! Do whatever you can, take her out-to the mall shopping, whatever! And don't talk about him unless she does first, and listen to her when she does. Give her a hug=-]. Let her know you are always there for her and how much she means to you!
This sounds just like my situation, I wish my best friend was like you! Instead she's ignoring me now and off flirting with him...Keep up the good work!
2006-08-11 04:46:42 · answer #6 · answered by xochewyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your friend she is worth more and deserves better. Tell her its sad how that jerk handled his business but tell her to stay positive and realize that at least she got rid of him now, and she doesnt have to be wasting any more of her precious time on someone like him. She needs to stay on top of everything and view things in a positive way...good things will come tell her to let it be and try concentrating in school, friends, hobbies all will help her and she really needs to want to forget about him.
2006-08-11 04:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by CALI GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to forget him and take her out and just be her friend right now and maybe make studying fun thing for her tell its exam time and lets do this it is more important then any man. There will be a lot more in your life and we was not the right one for you but you will find him and he will treat you right,
2006-08-11 04:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by Brooklyn Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her to lean on, let her vent, her frustrations out. I wouldent say anything too bad about the guy, because, if by chance they get back together, & you said really bad stuff about him, you may not have a friend anymore. So, be careful what you say!!
2006-08-11 04:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by yvonne p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there for her in her coping. maybe get her drunk and help her meet another who will take her mind off her ex. But defiantly keep her laughing., letting her know life goes on and the best is yet to come.
2006-08-11 04:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by tearbear1968 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋