So I work the door at a night club Thur Fri Sat. A group of Gay women came thru for a lil while. One was very impressed with how polite I was, and my mannerisms another girl recomemded me. They have some type of show coming up in September and she asked If I would work security.
She talked to me for about 10 minutes, I will make about 150 to two hundred bucks, which is cool. The job is easy, make sure no hanky panky is going on in the bathroom, when people get too drunk call them a cab and stop any fights and have the participants removed. Thats easy no problem.
As a guy in that setting I am nervous as hell. Granted I won't show it when I'm there. I feel like as a Guy I shouldn't be there even thou I was offered the job, I'm a guy. I don't know how I would react if I encounter women being mad becasue I'm there.
On another note I have no problem doing the Job, I will do a good job I'm not there to watch and gawk I've been on several spring breaks so I won't see anything new.
2006-08-11 04:35:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It won't make any difference you will still be a good door person and that is what will be recognized.
2006-08-11 04:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you work security you work security weather its at a strip club, gay bar, rodeo, police mans ball, whatever.
Just do the job you're paid to do. They want you because you're the best person. It would silly and sexist of them to only hire lesbian bouncers.
When i go to clubs I don't care the size or sex of the security, I just trust this person must be good or else they wouldn't be there.
2006-08-11 11:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you're doing your job, I have no problem. now, the lesbian bar we go to there's a gal at the door most of the time. but I never have a problem when it's a guy. there's also male bartenders as well. have you had any women object to your being there? you didn't mention that...if not, why are you nervous?
2006-08-11 13:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that matters is that you're good at your job. It's the same job no matter whether it's at some club or a lesbian bar. Just be professional and do the job you're paid to.
2006-08-11 11:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont sweat it i to work the door at a concert venue in Boston be happy they asked for you on night that we have normal shows i get **** from women about i bet you do this cause you like to touch woman just because i'm a bouncer and doing a mans job doesnt mean i like women i'f i were you i'd be proud that they offered it to you
2006-08-11 11:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by the ole ball and chain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like your good at what you do and so no there would be no reason to be offended, most gay bars have male door men so as long as your respectful to the customers cant see a problem
2006-08-11 11:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by doseonesbest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are good at your job and are acting in a professional manner it should not offend anyone that you are a guy.
2006-08-11 11:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by cricket 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't be offended. You were hired by the people who organized the party, so what's the problem? I don't think anyone would be offended, and if they are it's just ridiculous.
2006-08-11 12:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be concerned if a fight broke out. Women fight meaner than men. You could get seriously injured.
2006-08-11 11:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by Mark F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay away from there if you don't feel comfortable it is offending if i were you i would go for another job.
2006-08-11 11:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋