I know this sounds REALLY weird but.. Every day I am always doing every single tiny thing for my mom.. Like cleaning her desk, her room, making her breakfast, lunch, dinner, cleaning up after her getting her drinks answering her phone for her, snoop on her boyfriend while she is out, keep the whole house clean while she sits on her butt, staring at the teli or the PC, I am only writing this now because this is one of the days she isn't here.. And thank god, I have been living like this for the past six years.. Having to slave for her literally makes me break down in the middle of what I am doing and I just start crying, asking myself what I did to make her hate me so much, and why is she just tormenting ME? I have 1 younger brother and one older brother. Why dont they help? And why does my mom find SOME STRANGE way to link me to throwing out her makeup.. putting her toothbrush in goo.. She finds some strange way. PLEASE HELP.. I can not take one more day of this.
xoxo
katie
2006-08-11 04:28:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wow...sounds rough. ok first of all, you shouldn't be doing all those things for her. you sound like you should be in school, having fun with your friends, and doing all the things that normal kids do. forgive me if im wrong, but you seem to be a teenager, just in the tone of your question. in any case, you are not put on this earth to wait on her hand and foot. i'd recommend saying something to your father, or if he's not in the picture, then say something to another relative. you can't keep something like this illegal, because even if she's not beating you up or anything, she's depriving you of your childhood and the things that you ought to be doing. If the family won't listen, then you need to go to the police. i know that that's difficult to do, but you can't allow her to abuse you like that. you're not her personal plaything, and you don't have to do all the things she should be doing as the woman of the house. And, i think your brothers ought to be ashamed for having not come to your rescue by now. they should be helping you out of this situation. confront them on it too, tell them she's their mother too, and that you need some kind, any kind of help from them. good luck, and i hope this provides some answers you can use.
2006-08-11 04:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some moms just are not good mothers. She may have a mental problem or she just does not know how to be a great mom to you. Many people grow up with horrible parents. Just get through school and try to go away to college when you graduate high school. Also stay out of the house and away from your mother as much as possible. If she ever starts hitting you/ beating you then call the police, call the department of social services, and/or tell the school counselor when you are back in school.
2006-08-11 04:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sincerely sorry for you. I cannot even begin to imagine your situation. Maybe you can live wth some other family members or try reporting her to the proper authorities. I wish that I could do more to help but I wish you the best of luck and hope that everything gets better soon.
2006-08-11 04:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by martini_40727 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom to be a better mother by giving you respect, and tell her lazy *** to clean the damn house and help out.... ok dont say that... but let her know how you feel. try going to family therapist, maybe that will open your moms heavy lazy eyelids. sorry.
2006-08-11 04:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt know what to do if i was in ur situation, but i would suggest moving out with a friend or a relative at least, i understand its not easy...and have u ever tried talking to her??? but i say u should talk to anyone in ur area to help you... because these yahoo answers wont do anything for you...like i said, its not going to be easy, but u have to do wut u have to do..i wish u the best of luck ♣
2006-08-11 04:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by custom_made_mami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doll you need to find some serious help, try a school councelor or priest at church to talk to youneed to address this and quick pls contact me if i can help,i wish you luck.God Bless
2006-08-11 04:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by chris w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are under 18 you need to report her to child and family services if your to scared tell a friends parent someone you can trust they will help you
2006-08-11 04:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it that kind of pressure shouldn't be put on you. Ask her does she hate you. if she doesn't make you do stuff then don't do it. but if she does make you do stuff ask her why you always have to do everything.
2006-08-11 04:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by Alexia S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
CALL THE WE TIP HOTLINE AND TELL THEM YOUR STORY THEY CAN HELP YOU AND GET YOU OUT OF THERE... GOOD LUCK..
2006-08-11 04:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by MARY B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋