Why am i the only person with Marfans Syndrome in my family, and do girls ever like people like me?

Question

Dr yesterday saw me, checked me and told me i have marfans. I seem to be one of the few, i never seen anyone like me before, that has super skinny long webby hands. My family doesn't have it, nobody .. so but anyways, i feel like perhaps girls don't like me because of this. and since i have chest pain and all kinds of symptoms sometimes, i feel no girl would like to be with me.. i mean why waster their time. What do you guys think?

Marfans syndrome.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marfans

I don't have all the symptoms but i have many of them, like hands, and scoliosis, ..

Answer 1

I was born with floppy dumbo ears, so I had that fixed as a kid.
I also had a hernia, which was fixed as well.
I had a lumpectomy to remove a benign tumor on my breast and now I have 2 other tumors on my other breast. One I can't feel.
My breasts are uneven. & I have small boobs.
I've had scoliosis since I was 12. Went to the doctor when I was an older teen and he told me that I wasnt going to grow anymore, so I shouldnt worry about it or bother doing anything.
I have spider veins on my ankle & near my knee on just one leg and a little on the inner side of my leg near the ankle on the other leg.
Ive had muscae volitantes since I was about 16 years old. It's protein floating in my eye that causes a black spot in my vision.

Will anyone ever love me?

I went to a doctor today to see if I could get the spider veins fixed, and the doctor told me to ignore them, that he couldnt even see them. I'm sure he could see them, he just thought it was insignificant. I couldnt help but feel shallow afterwards. My dad has scars all over his body from surgeries & there I was talking about my unimportant cosmetic desires. The doctors daughter also has scars on herself from the 3 roll-over car accidents she was in.

I just want to be normal & pretty. I want someone to love me someday & sometimes I feel like no one will ever love me because of the way I am.

Youre lucky youre a guy, it's easier that way. Girls arent as shallow about looks. I'd date a guy with marfans, but would you want me? No, because I'm not japanese! ;(

Some of us have problems, and we can't do anythign about it, so why bother whining about it? We just have to accept it & move on. You will find a girl someday, all you have to do is go out & meet girls.

Answer 2

Recessive traits may skip generations before chance gene combination. They say some women like men for themselves and not their appearance.

Answer 3

ii THiiNK GiiRLS WOULD LiiKE YOU. THERES SOME GiiRLS iiN THE WORLD WHO WOULD W0RSHiiP THE GROUND YOU WALK ON. AS L0NG AS U WORSHiiP THEM BACK.