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i dont get them,and its kinda annoying how they say theyre so fat but not at all, and how do i stop a friend whos starting!

2006-08-11 03:39:15 · 4 answers · asked by curious_cow 1 in Beauty & Style Skin & Body

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People who hate anorexics - instead of seeing them as the suffering people they are - are usually insecure themselves.

2006-08-11 12:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Mary 6 · 0 0

It's because they have a distorted body image. Please don't forget it is a mental disorder, not just a being vain or shallow. It can often start off as dieting, which becomes more and more extreme and the suffer will excercise obsessively, even if they feel ill. Soon they are eating very little and eating can actually make them feel physically sick. They will often just sit and pick or play with food, but won't eat anything. They will drastically limit their calorie intake, sometimes eating nothing at all.

You have to encourage your friend to get help if she thinks she has a problem. All you can do is be there for her and give her positive encouragement. Telling her she is not fat won't really help, as reassurance is very short-lived and it makes suffers dependant on compliments and reassurance to feel good.

Take care.

2006-08-11 11:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

we dont undersand u normal ppl eather! we dont get how u say that we r so skinny we c things diffrently its more of a mental problem and the outcome of it is that we go 2 extream messures lose weight... 2 stop a friend who is starting i would suggest u b there 4 her tell her it bad try and scare her out of it but dont talk about it sooo much dont crtasixe her 4 being that way cause u just dont understand just b nice dont tell her how crazy it is just tell her what she is getting into like health ishues and stuff but dont say how stupid it is it will make her want 2 do it more good luck!

2006-08-12 14:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by ... 6 · 0 0

Well, maybe we think fat people are 'kinda annoying'. Besides, it is a disease, your friend needs professional help from a doctor. That's like saying that someone with cancer is 'kinda annoying', you should be more sensitive!

2006-08-11 11:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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