ok i dont get it why are yall so jealous and protective? my gf get's so mad when i tlk to a girl other than her for longer tha an hour. like even if i go to visit my ex gf without her she gets so mad i mean it's not like we are going to kiss or anything.
2006-08-11 02:55:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I've always tried to figure that out as well. I don't think it can be done.
2006-08-11 03:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She feels that way because she knows you very well and what do you want private time with your ex for anyway if not to do the nasty.How would you feel if she talked to men for hours,one might even be the ex she goes to visit without you.Not very happy are you?Would u believe her if she told you we're only friends you would be thinking there's more to that right.You need to grow up and give the girl little credit because right now you sound really dumb.Here's some advice ditch the ex she's that for a reason and she knows what you'll are doing is pissing off the g/f that a woman's way of proving a point to any woman her ex have especially when she knows the girl got a temper that she still have some measure of control where he is concern.Let your ex go find a man or work on her relationship with him and u go do the same because if she has one she sure ain't telling him she still see you and privately at that .No way.Dude she's destroying your happiness and preserving hers.
2006-08-11 11:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All girls aren't like that, but admittedly, we are a very jealous and protective sex.
Why we're like that... I think it's our nature to be like that. If it's not our nature, then it's because of the "fierce competition" out there. We're always afraid if our boyfriends are eyeing another girl, or if he suddenly encounters another girl that he clicks better with. I think our jealousy and protectiveness comes from the fact that we are usually very emotionally involved in relationships (stereotypically, more so than the men, but I may be wrong), and so we overreact when we sense the remotest of threats.
If your girlfriend is very jealous and protective, those are signs that she's really into you and doesn't want to lose you! Try to bear with it, although it may be a little frustrating.
2006-08-11 10:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my boyfriend was hanging out with his ex I would make it very well known that I was upset. Plus all of us girls are like that. Maybe try giving her more attention. (quality attention). And I agree why are you spending time with your ex???? Ex's are ex's for a reason and should be left in the past. Especially if you've moved on. I swear sometimes I just dont get men. ugh
2006-08-11 10:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're visiting your ex-girlfriend? And going by yourself? C'mon, this is a stupid question that you already know the answer to. How would you like it if she went to "visit" her old boyfriend? If you are doing things like that, she has reason to be jealous. As a matter of fact, she should just save herself the trouble and dump you.
2006-08-11 10:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by kris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls are that way. Maybe she's insecure and thinks she has something to worry about with your friendship with your ex. Why not encourage her to go with you to visit the ex? Btw, if you're thinking long-term here and this is a deal-breaker for you the jealousy will not get better, it'll get worse unless you show her that she has nothing to worry about.
2006-08-11 10:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by Lex 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you see, girls for some unknown reason, we never feel THAT great about our selves. we're always self consius and we never like how we look . so if your talking to other girls for over an hour , even more so without her there, shes probly just afriad shes gonna lose you to what she thinks is a prettyer girl (we always think other girls are prettyer then us.) so next time you go visit with ur ex take her with u and kepp the visit short. and don't forget to tell her nice she looks sometimes it makes us feel great when guys tell us we look good. hope I helped.
2006-08-11 10:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by melanie d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a trust issue to me. However, if she's an EX, why would be be spending so much time with her. I would suggest you really spend time talking with your current girlfriend about this but you might need to do some soul searching yourself about what you really want out of a relationship and ultimately with who.
Good luck. . .
2006-08-11 10:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by sjconline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL girls aren't like that. And maybe she doesn't like you hanging out with your ex alone? That sounds reasonable to me... Why ARE you hanging out with your ex alone, anyway?
Instead of getting mad about her reaction, try to at least comfort her. Be nice instead of getting all defensive. Reassure her. Don't be like "Oh my god you're over reacting nothing is going to happen okay JEEZ!" It will only cause her to worry, and it will get between you. Be kind, sweet, and reassuring, and she's more likely to trust you.
And oh yeah-- Don't betray that trust!
2006-08-11 10:01:06 · answer #9 · answered by Elizabeth L J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just worried about you. Some girls worry that their men are so called "playas", and are protective of what they believe is their property. This is a common phenomenom. Just continue to treat her well and build her trust in you until she always believes you.
2006-08-11 10:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by potatosalad2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo same problem here...my ex girl now, got angry when I stared at other girls...basically if you are in a relationship you are expect to give your girl undivided attention..its hard but its part of the game. Yo I wish girlfriends could just be OK with us lookin at other girls, sleep with other girls and talk to other girls...that would be perfect!
2006-08-11 10:05:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋