My friend's problem?

Question

My friend just met this boy. He is really cute and he seems nice.
She asked him when the last time he had sex and he said 4 months ago but he said that he havent had a girlfriend in 3 years just friends. My friend invited him over and when he was about to leave she asked him for a kiss and he didnt want to give her a kiss because he said that will cause problems but he was trying to get her to have sex with him. What do you think?

Answer 1

If someone says " my friend's problem " it adresses it si problem of speaker:)
Well that he has not have a gf does not mean he cannot have sex. but i found strange that he refused her kissing request .
What is that guy? Dumb?
i think your friend shouldthink about her relationship again. Either guy does not want her or has someone else in his life..

Answer 2

I think that's all she is for him--just sex. He's saving his kisses for his next girlfriend. He may, eventually, even kiss her; but, it's still just sex. He's just making his way through the girls, looking for the woman who will withhold it 'til marriage. That's the one he'll know he can trust; 'cause if she'll be obedient to God by sanctifying it (making it sacred) in marriage, he'll be able to trust her to be faithful to him, AFter marriage. It's nature's way of showing guys who will be the best wives/mothers.

Woman's way is to say, "No." to guys until the one comes along who will reSPECT her "No.", and marry her without the "Yes." That's how the woman knows he really loves her--if he'll wait for it, and that this is husband/father material. It's God's and Nature's way to assure a "fortress for wellbeing"-- good home for children and a happy marriage.

It would seem to me that this (that he just wants sex--he practically said as much) would be obvious to both your friend and you. I really can't get over how DUMB women are! I'm so ashamed of my own sex sometimes; but, I guess it's all in learning. It's just such a painful lesson!

The "really cute" part seems more important than the "seems nice" part. Of course, he hasn't had a girlfriend in 3 years--just friends with bennies is more convenient for him.

I'm wondering how desperate a woman has to be to ASK a guy to kiss her!

Also, her asking for a kiss when he was leaving can be painful for a guy if he's stimulated but, no follow through. If she doesn't want it, she shouldn't be asking for it. A kiss should be a physical expression of love; AND reserved for marriage, since it is the gateway to things to follow, not a stimulation of sexual urge.

Answer 3

he may be fast.