... is women's tears a feather in your cap?
why do you seem to gloat when women cry over losing you?
is that some kind of a trophy to you or something?
just a favor... could you please ENLIGHTEN me, please?
2006-08-11 02:44:55 · 14 answers · asked by Inquirer 5 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
if he made you cry, then he wasn't worth it in the first place.
:)
2006-08-11 02:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by Southpaw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Part of the trouble is that 80% of the girls are after 10% of the guys. when you have that type of supply and demand off set, you ask for trouble Imagine you are in a professional office and there is a snack tray with nuts. You go to grab a nut but in your haste and the oil on the nut, cause it to squirt from your hand on to the floor. Are you going to get upset? No. there are plenty left in the tray. You just pick out another one. Same with these men(and I use the term loosely)that most of the girls go for; thugs, playas, and guys with China deep pockets. I have personally seen acquaintances and coworkers take bets on who can land the new office hot babe 1st. They never thought pass getting her in the bed until she got bored then dumping her to move to the next. And there is no shortage of girls wanting to be next. They don't like to see her cry, and they know she might when she figures she has been dumped. that is why they just do the vanishing act. And don't call her back. At best they just dump her by e-mail because they don't have to see her break down. Do that help you get a better picture? :-D
2006-08-14 05:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me start off by saying that no man, boy or player (that's right player.. I said it) likes to see any woman cry it's just that you guys aways cry when we are trying to get our feelings out or maybe we messed up and cheated. What ever the reason no man or anybody like that likes to see you cry. This is a big misconseption on a girl's part. Just because you cry you guys think that we like it because why else would he hurt me like that. I guess for some men it might be the whole wow she's in love with me thing but still he doesn't like to see you cry because chances are he saw his mother or sister cry over the same reasons once.
2006-08-11 10:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by de4life34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only people who enjoy making you cry are the ones you not have gone out with in the first place. Treat each and every meeting in your life as a learning experience.
There is someone for everybody. You sound like a very nice and wonderful person. It will only be a matter of time before your 'Prince Charming' comes along and sweeps you off of your feet.
Because you are sensitive and caring, the old adage holds true, ---nice things happen to nice people.
2006-08-11 09:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by marnefirstinfantry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just do not agree with you. Usually men feel somewhat guilty and even somewhat embarrassed. Gloating? Not at all EXCEPT... and I will try to explain this but it is very difficult.. If I was going with a gal for a long time (by the way.. I would never do this)and I broke up with her.. I might appear to be gloating with my guy friends about ME breaking up with HER for XXX reasons. but inside, I am not really gloating but am somewhat ashamed at my actions and I try to bolster them by putting on a FALSE gloat.. I do not know if I explained that well but if I did not.. sorry.
2006-08-11 09:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually when a girl i know cries whether it be g/f or just a friend it makes me feel horrible, even if i didn't cause it. So if a guy gloats when a girl cries he is probably an a$$hole. just my opinion.
2006-08-11 09:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't dealing with men. You are dealing with boys. Real men don't get turned on by a woman's tears. The so-called me you are apparently dealing with are just older boys, not "men". Get rid of the boys and find a "man". Good luck.
2006-08-11 09:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That can be all guys.... I cant stand to see a woman cry, and if your going out with men that like to see you cry, you need to change your choice of men
2006-08-11 09:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by wilfreds805 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never seen that , maybe its just the conceited guys, usually the guys are pretty bumed out as well and try to cover it up with drinking.kinda like women eating chocolate.
2006-08-11 09:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by Chunky G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pride, ego, call it what you may, but if somebody who does not love you, rejects you, don't expect he/she will know your emotional pain.
Your hurt because the guy whom you love rejected you.
Have you rejected a suitor before, can you imagine how he felt when you said to NO to him.
Its typical human emotion
2006-08-11 10:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by civilestimator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation, if you left me and now you are upset, you should cry because yes i was the best thing you ever had.
2006-08-11 09:52:02 · answer #11 · answered by the RAMSEY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋