I've been on here before about my GF's pms/pmdd and have gotten great answers. She is seeing a doctor. She loves me and we are great together for a time, then all of an instant she doesn't want us together, that she can't love the way she should. But half of the time, she shows me more love then she even sees. I'm not desperate, I just don't wanna let go of something good. She says she has always been like this. She even says she can't control these feelings. Is there Help for her love relationships or Us.
2006-08-11 02:39:55 · 15 answers · asked by Terry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like a female
2006-08-11 02:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think there are two possibilities.
1. She doesn't love you and that's why she wants the space. If that's the case then you should let her go because she won't be able to show the same amount of love you show her and that's not fair to you. Also she won't be able to feel love for someone the way you feel for her and that wouldn't be fair to her. Maybe being friends would be a good option.
2. She may be confused or afraid of letting you know how much she cares about you because the closer she gets to you the greater chance she has of getting hurt. You will probably say you would never hurt her but it's more of a self-esteem issue or being guarding because of things that have happened in her life. If this is the case then you should let her know how you feel and stay by her side to show her what you said was true.
Either way your going to have to talk to her to find out which it is. Just tell her how you feel and see how she does and take it from there. Good luck.
2006-08-11 02:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't give up on her. I have the same problem and I truly love my bf. for some reason when i get pms i hate him and say things i don't mean. try to avoid intense conversations and reassure her that everything will be ok even if she says it won't. it's really hard to get help. I've tried hormone tablets, evening primrose oil, councelling all sorts and it's getting worse. if you find anything that helps her please let us girls know. stay strong. it isn't your fault. cuddles n kisses n lots of patience and remember she really doesn't mean it. if she did it would be all the time. good luck to you both from a fellow sufferer. ps i leave upset voice mails for my bf when he's at work and can't ring me..why?
2006-08-11 02:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by minerva 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she is seeing a doctor then thats great. do you go with her? will she let you? she hasn't left you so dont let go just consentrate on the good times be there when she needs you. do you think you could get her to see a counsellor? this seems to be something in her past which stops the commitment to you. good luck
2006-08-11 02:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls dont know what they have until its gone she sounds like she is hiding something.Try to find out or let her go. Have you ever herd the saying, If you love something let it go if it is ment to be it will come back to you. Let her go if she loves you she will be back soon.Dont wait forever, maybe when she comes back it wont be to late!! If it is thats her falt.
2006-08-11 02:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is she probably doesn't really love you and will split when mr. right comes along. i'm sorry and i don't want to hurt you, but as a woman, if i am in love with someone......there is nothing that keeps me away. i've been married for 13 years and nothing keeps me away...my husband is everything to me....and he says he feels the same. you should be prepared to die for your partner, then you know it is love...settle for nothing less.
best of luck
2006-08-11 02:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by canada grl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you said she is seeing a doctor so maybe something is going on with her health or maybe she is confuse.or may be the doctor told her something, and after that she thinks she cant love any more because of wat the doctor said any way you sould talk to her find out why she cant love you the way she sould
i hope i was of some help!!!!
2006-08-11 03:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricky one hey! If you really love her hang on in there babe! But think about it, if you have more sad days with her than you do happy ones sometimes ot just aint worth it hunny!
2006-08-11 02:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by Totty D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is confused and doesnt know what she wants or want to be tied down just yet, give her some space as you sound abit intense...(not being rude) let her chase you....
2006-08-11 02:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by paulrb8 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Either ur not given her attention or ur givin her too much attention, coz girls get too proud if u give them too much attention, hey dont think im blabering any crap, im talking from experience
2006-08-11 02:45:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋