i have been with the same guy since i was 14 and we are both now going to be 23. when we were about 18 he got into drugs. now we have been struggling with it ever since. he loves me and wants to be with me but his mood and attitude always changes. we live in a small town and is known as the #1 place for meth and drugs and everyone around here if they know you for that its hard to stay away from them and for them to stay away from you. he just keeps doing all the running around. like he likes to be in the middle of all the drama. all i can do is be ther for him but i get tierd and am worn out but i can't bring myself to leave and i don't want to. i just keep thinking eventually it will get better.???????????
2006-08-11 02:24:43 · 6 answers · asked by rmt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well it great that yall stayed together so long but yall need to get him some help first off and move to a nother place. if hes not willing to get help then tell him ur leavin and if he realy loves u then he will try and get off and if he dont then yall shouldnt be together anyt more anyways cuz he would have sooner later chosen drugs over u anyways so u need to tell him that its either u or the drugs
2006-08-11 02:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by slick_chik316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey let an old lady who's been there tell you some truths.You know that being there for him is a played out excuse. By now you know that love isn't a noun like school taught love is a verb. Are his action towards you loving ? A person canbe just as addicted to the lifestyle as the drug.So let's see do you want to end up in prison? do you want to see him or yourself killed? How hard is it to love yourself? Honey you know what you have to do, grow uo and make the right choices for yourself. You will regret not looking out for yourself first,he must make his own chices, get the hell out for you will be sorry.
2006-08-11 09:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to avoid a world of hurt and possibly involvement in something to send you to prison, get away from him. Once into drugs always into drugs. You could lose any children you have now or in the future too,
2006-08-11 09:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! Doing drugs like that is a one way street to JAIL or prison.... & he could be dragging you down with him. I see stories all the time about the girlfriends getting blamed cause the boyfriend set her up so he didnt do jailtime. Watch crime Tv once in a while... You'll see it for yourself. I say get away as fast as possible. Good luck.
2006-08-11 09:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will not get better until he hits rock bottom or gets arrested. Are you in for that ride? I would leave. Get far away because eventually he will get caught.
2006-08-11 09:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by majesticwife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave them fast
2006-08-11 09:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by ssgtusmc3013 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋