2006-08-11 02:02:49 · 16 answers · asked by qwerty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nose hair
Back hair
Smelly body parts
Belly fat
Bad Breath
Dirty fingernails
Over grown toe nails
Bad manners
Foul mouth
Bad temper
Lack of romance and compliments
Procrastination
Just to name a few....
Good luck
2006-08-11 02:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The largest sexual organ in the body is the brain. Try stimulating that before anything else. You also have to remember that woman who have children at home and work outside the home and keep the house are pretty well spent at the end of the day. Maybe she is not so much turned off as she is just too tired. Try giving her some time away, an overnight trip with her girlfriend for some r&r, an overnight or weekend trip for the 2 of you with no set agenda of events, just hang out and have fun together.....get someone you absolutely trust to take the kids and then no phone calls home while you're away. My husband and I had this problem when the kids were younger, he was sure it was me not wanting him and no assurance I gave him ever made him feel any better. Truth be told I was just exhausted all the time. Once the kids got a little older and a little more self sufficient the stress I felt from everyday life eased up enough that I can hardly wait for him to walk through the door so we can go take a "nap" Good luck to you
2006-08-11 09:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by alsfreak4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many turn offs. And they all vary depending on the woman. What turns my wife ON is noticing the little things she does for me. Getting intimate without being sexual. The topper is romanticism: flowers, a card with no special occasion, a call out of the blue just to tell her how special she is, and/or dancing in the deli isle to the canned music in the grocery store.
After 3 marriages I've finally learned that the best way to turn on my wife is to make her know without a doubt that she is the most precious thing to me in the universe.
2006-08-11 09:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by whitewolfpfv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes a wife turned off is if the husband gets lazy around the house doesn't surprise then and hangs around with his friends most of the time
a romantic moment would be for her to come back from a day at work u clean up the house and light some scented candles then set rose petals leading to the table set with a wonderful dinner for two after that u tell her to "freshen up" then set rose petals from where ever she's coming from to the bedroom were your sitting their i a cloak waiting for her in seductive eyes you go to her start caressing her on her neck
and the rest is history
2006-08-11 09:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you have to ask is saying quite a lot... your wife fell in love with you man, so only you know what romantic moment she is really waiting for you to treat her too. YOu should start by looking inside and finding the guy she fell in love with, after all, who you are today is probably only a shadow of the man she fell for, so bring back the old you and you may see a long lost look in her eyes
2006-08-11 09:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by tybardy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pressure for sex turn a wife off.
Suggest a date night for only the 2 of you. Set the mood, dinner, Lots of candles.
Good Luck!
2006-08-11 09:05:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough details in your question to provide a decent response. Could be any reason regarding physical, mental, and / or sexual needs. You need to have an open non-judgemental discussion with your wife about what she and you want before, during and after sex.
2006-08-11 09:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by Just Another Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of respect.
Sex should be more that 2 minutes, 52 seconds of squishing noises, and if it's just a "spread 'em and bread 'em"' attitude, I'm honestly not surprised.
You need to reconnect on an emotional level before you can reconnect on a sexual level.
2006-08-11 09:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree completely with White Wolf. For a woman, sexuality, eroticism, and just plain old gettin horny all start in the mind and in the heart. Win back her heart and you get the bedroom prize as well.
2006-08-11 09:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by titaniasmaid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont fart under the covers and hold the sheets over her head... thats a real mood breaker. Also dont drink beer and beltch in public that'll pisser off quicker than sh!t
actually you know what makes my wife happy and wants me in the bedroom.... "WHEN THE KIDS ARE AWAY" no kidding... she is happy and cheerful and horny when the kids are away for the night or the day... i guess kids take a tole on her.
2006-08-11 09:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by Grin Reeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋