How do you ignore this or make things better? I mean, how does a person not let things get to them or make their self esteem very low and feel so bad?
2006-08-11 01:57:10 · 8 answers · asked by shizzlechit 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sweet sweet dear under those circumstance sometimes you just have to forgive them and pray for them.
Yeah I know you want like to pull their tounge out are pull their head off and use it to play basketball with, but that would not solve a thing.
Smile and keep smile because sooner or later it will come back to visit on them trust me it will.
Dear I hope that you have a most wonderful day now.
2006-08-11 02:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by Tom Sawyer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it makes you feel terrible to hear people make things up about you, and it's definitely difficult to ignore the rumor or those who make it up. But you know what? If you try to defend or explain things, it'll only get worse. Rumors, like fashion, die after a period of time. I'm sure you've got friends you can trust and whom you trust. Maybe they can speak for you? I hope the bad things people made up about you will soon die. Good luck!
2006-08-11 02:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by CRT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doe's make you feel bad, just remember the ones who know you know you wouldn't do such a thing and ignore everyone else that thinks so.its hard to but eventually it will die down, people like to get in everyone business . they will be talking about the next person in no time. someone lied [big lie] about me at work it really bothered me because i"m not like that at all, but my friends helped me cause they believed in me , and knew i would not have done that. I don't do anything bad so they just like to make up stuff.
2006-08-11 02:17:07 · answer #3 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They only talk bad because they're jealous of you.They know your good,that's why they have to make up junk stories.Don't let the real bad people destroy your self worth.You said yourself you are a good person.Keep on treating people like you want to be treated,you'll be older alot longer than you'll be young ,they will remember you for how you kept your since of style and grace during their rein of terror on you.Head up.Good Luck sweetie.
2006-08-11 02:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by sandy v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to remain the person you are; some of them will eventually come to realize it was rumors and putdowns.
Associate with nicer people.
2006-08-11 02:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by cowgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ill tell you like my mom told me if they talked about Jesus they are going to talk about you I just hope they are not your so called friends cause if so let em go keep your head up & dont let them haters keep you down
2006-08-11 02:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by jacci mcann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to ignore it. it sometimes happens with me also .dont pay to much of attention to it . they will get ok thereselves and will stop this.well if u are a girl even iam a girl u can chat with me if u want my id is saloniadi_643@yahoo.com
2006-08-11 02:07:40 · answer #7 · answered by saloni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just gota go on with the show,I'm going through the same stuff right now, eventuially people will figure ouyt the truth, just try to associate with positive people
2006-08-11 02:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by .? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋