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ur hubby is very loving & caring but want to go on his way. doesnot want to hear u or u can say don't want to go on ur way

2006-08-11 01:54:58 · 11 answers · asked by Rachna J 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

11 answers

Take him away for a dinner or something - just you and him. Talk to him then.... say that he needs to compromise with some of the things that are of importance to you because you are not happy. you love him and you know he loves you but there are some things he needs to understand about you. it would be great if he could.

2006-08-11 01:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0 0

Some men (and I must STRESS that I am referring to SOME MEN...not all) just won't listen to their wives no matter what but a start... make sure when you do talk with him, it is not griping or nagging about something. Men don't want to hear that "things aren't right" about anything. They pretty much want life to be simple and don't like the "waves". Change isn't always good with them. I am fortunate to have a man who loves to have conversations with me but I NEVER start a sentence with "I FEEL...." Men "think", women "feel" is what my man said years ago and it stuck with me so as far as he knows, I "think" and never "feel" in conversations. I would suggest that you tell him "you THINK he doesn't want to talk WITH you." Conversations go two ways.. he talks, you listen; you talk; he listens... remind him of this occasionally.

Good luck, hope this helps... God Bless you both.

2006-08-11 09:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by Big-Sister 4 · 0 0

I know what you mean..and I am a man ..i think i understand men point of view..You see. we men have alot of bride of our manhood to the point we can hardly listen what ladies tell us..but if you give time to understand your hubby..what motivates him,,you may find out why he is turning away from you..Probably he is getting irritated from so many things like
1- too many kids problems at home
2- routine at home
3- not enough comfort at home
4-no one is listening to him , so he is not listening to anyone.
5- not having good romance
6- no good food
all these things and similar might make him turn away from you and start rejecting your ways ..
you just gotta take it easy and make the world prettier and more romantic for both of you ..Then and only then(we will pray to GOD)that he will come to his senses and listen ..I hope i got you closer to him..and GOOD luck

2006-08-11 09:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by qwerty 2 · 0 0

Need more details, are you trying to talk to your hubby about matters of (your) the heart? And feel like he's being insensitve.

One thing I learned is there a difference between your "intentions" and your actions... make sure they match.

But again, I would need more details.
Thanks

2006-08-11 09:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by * Deep Thought * 4 · 0 0

hey there are u many ways ,hope u hve learnt abt him well like a book and same be patient do things which he wolud like and one of the best way to reach a mans heart is to reach is stomach if he is gud eater and then never argue , if reads books try to hve some books which enhance is patients to listen.

2006-08-11 09:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by a_guy_from_banglore 1 · 0 0

Stop telling him to do things or listen to you or express your view.....for a few days so that its noticeable to him. And VOILA u will see the change..he will coming to you asking for more...your opinions, advice or maybe just listen to you.

2006-08-11 09:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by Guru4urQUERIES 2 · 0 0

Rachna, jump in the bed with me. He will listen;-)

2006-08-11 13:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i think basically you want your hubby to listen to you.

2006-08-11 10:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by sanjay g 1 · 0 0

rachna if this is the way u try to make him understand wat u want him to understand then he wont understand wat u want him to understand
understood
listen he is just confused give him time

2006-08-11 10:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by rishi anand 3 · 0 0

have sex with another man

2006-08-11 09:13:38 · answer #10 · answered by firecrotch 2 · 0 0

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