2006-08-11 01:48:16 · 12 answers · asked by shash 1 in Local Businesses ➔ India ➔ Other - India
it is a complex equation of what you have been brought up to feel.. you must be happy in your marriage, after all, it is you that will be living in it. you much also balance this with what your family can accept, some families cannot accept some things, and you will ultimately be unhappy if your relations with your family are very bad also.
in the end, be true to yourself and follow your heart and your head, dont ignore one or the other.
2006-08-11 14:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult to answer YES/NO. But, the fact that both has it's own beauty and difficulty based on the circumstances and situations. I have experienced both and found beauty in both.
There should be love in marriage. It can come before marriage or after marriage based on culture of the people involved.
If you are in love with a person before marriage and you feel she/he is the one for your life, you need not feel the same after the marriage. Where as if you are already married to a person with whom you never fall in love before marriage, love can happen after the marriage. But in any good arranged marriage, the marriage should not be just arranged by the parents of the bride or groom. The arrangement should ultimately come from the persons who are supposed to get married.
Lot of luck and chances more than any thing when one is ready to became made for the other without conditions and when it is true for both persons, there is where the real marriage happens. Not necessarily that whether it is arranged or love marriage.
2006-08-11 02:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by COOLDUDE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may replace into useful yet you do want atleast some academical expertise like having the flexibility to ascertain. in case you dont desire to be in drugs, engineering, or get an arranged marriage you may continuously upon up your man or woman new save or employer franchise. It does take alot of artwork however noticeably in the experience that your loved ones is unwilling or unable that may assist you. Use the certainty which you have over your different cousins on your benefit purchase advertising it or offering it as a provider in case you may. arranged marriages are on occasion there to look out on your destiny in existence if each and every thing else fails. This rather is a foul subject.
2016-10-01 22:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi shash...My husband is American-Pakistani (born in USA ).
I'm American.
I can definitely tell you that my husband's family would've rather had him marry into an arranged marriage, but that's not what happened, obviously.
That's what his family wanted, not him.
My husband met me and fell head-over-heels...(me too!)
We had known of each other in high school, but never really hung out. Then, a few years after high school, we met up with freiends, and started dating. Now we're married!
We've been together almost 7 years now, and we couldn't be happier!
I say, just go with whatever your heart tells you to. It will lead you in the right direction!
You may have to deal with family crap (like we have), but ultimately, it's your decision who you want to spend the rest of your life with.
I hope all goes well for you! Peace and Blessings!
2006-08-11 02:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Bite Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know but my bro had a love marriage & he's happy with it. Arrange marriages work too my parents are still together & very happy in their life
2006-08-11 01:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Truly Madly Deeply 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love marriage is ok as long as our parents give their blessings.. Think well before falling in love..U should not be hurting ur parents who brought u to this world and who did everything for u.. Find a girl who will take care of ur parents as hers'.. And doesn leave them to suffer in their old age...
2006-08-11 01:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by savi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
raja is right in saying so.
Existence of love is important after marriage, whether love marriage or arranged marriage.
2006-08-11 02:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by helpaneed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love marriage are arranged marriage if there is love, true love then any one is good,
2006-08-11 02:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by raja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriages suck.
2006-08-11 01:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course love mariiage. You know each other better. You have a better understanding
2006-08-11 02:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by paulszone2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋