I saw many people friends, relatives, movie figures, and intellects lost their heart, mind and lives in search of their true and lifetime mate, such heartbreakin to see good people ruin themselves because of their failed relationships? We know everything in this world will pass and we are not exempted to that, but how can you accept the reality if the very core of your heart and life is gone forever and with someone else, how can LOVE gone wrong, when it is so pure and so unselfish?? LOVE???
2006-08-11 01:20:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Most people have the wrong concept of "Soul mate." It is not someone you find.
You can search for Romance and find it. Romance always fades with time. When you stop looking for Love, it finds you. You only need to be aware of it when it happens. Love lasts forever.
Far too often, people believe that they have found Love, but have found Romance instead. When the Romance fades, they think that the Love has gone out of their life and feel brokenhearted.
Everyone that I have ever met who knows Love says the same thing: "No one will need to tell you when it happens. You will know." They almost always also add that they thought that they had "found love" before, but they were mistaken.
2006-08-11 21:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 65⤊ 0⤋
I don think there is such a thing as soul mate or the one.i don believe in destiny either.i believe that ppl make choices to either make things work or not.its like if ur with th one person and if you both are committed to one-another,and you learn to be patient and forgiving with each other,it'll work out.we are all humans and have temptations to cheat,or search for better.the only way you can stick together is if you are committed,tolerant of each other.remember that time isn't all that.sometimes jst coz you're together for 2yrs doesnt mean its all good.whenever you date,try your best to be honest and give what you can.never loose yourslf in th process.ppl get lost&turn to suicide when they believe in weird things like "the one".you make th person the one for you..
2006-08-11 08:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know! So many factors can change a human being overnight.Presently, in our this society, you have to accept changes, either is good or bad ! Then, there is a word saying "you can only said that when your wife/husband is yours only when the wife/husband is died". Hope you understand.
2006-08-11 11:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that you should feel it completely. It is recognition. You should feel it with all of your senses. It should be clear.
It still doesn't mean that the relationship will last forever. Nothing lasts.
2006-08-11 08:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by BonAqua Identity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date longer and do not marry or have sex too soon.
Get to know someone.
When you meet the right one, there will be no dought.
2006-08-11 08:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋