I am a very shy girl and i don't talk much around people i barely know.........i usually only spoke when i am spoken too!!!!!I have often heard from others that people think i am a snob and that i thinks i am too good to talk to them but that is totally untrue!!!!!I don't think myself any better or any worse then anyone else i am just very shy and easy intimided around strangers!!!!What can i do to overcome my shyness so people can get to know the nice,sweet person i consider myself to be!!!
2006-08-11 01:19:41 · 15 answers · asked by Baybee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No one understand this unless they are shy themselves.I had that problem in school,I was painfully shy then.
I didn't grow out of it until I started working at 16,I'm still not as loud and open as a lot of people.
I just have to make an effort to talk more .and i really have to know someone well to open up all the way.
2006-08-11 01:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol be yourself your extremly hot... Don't let people make you become who you are... If you want to become more confident...Then start seeing yourself becoming that person you want to be.. Don't think because you are shy, that you are less capable.. There will always be people against you no matter how amazing you are.. You are special..
If your afraid of people, do some mental rehearsal... Think back to times you were feeling strong... If you constantly dwell on the negative,,, it will be a self fufilling prophecy,,, Wants you begin to believe in yourself,, everyone else will to.
Good Luck :>)
2006-08-11 01:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by ۞ JønaŦhan ۞ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have similar problem as you except that I'm not shy but only I do not smile and do not talk much.
Except those who know me as a kind and warm person when approached, else many people perceive that I'm proud and unfriendly .
I've learned to smile more and that really worked wonders.
2006-08-11 01:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by Phantom of the Opera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel bad i used to be like that in high school and people thought the same thing,and it was hard. i just recently started to get over being with drawled and i am 34. so my best thing i can tell you is practice socializing in a mirror or with your mom or some one you feel comfortable around.
2006-08-11 01:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by zayda t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as she dosent socialize much read some tips on this site on how not to be shy with the opposite sex
2006-08-11 01:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the secret to overcoming shyness is to stop focusing about yourself and start focusing on the topic of conversation- the moment you start thinking about your clothes, face, hair, zit, nails, you are going to zone out and get shy again- it you are focused on the topic you are engaged in the conversation
2006-08-11 01:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by Luci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for me, that's the way the cookie crumbles. I've just learned to live without friends. But yeah, it sucks. Good luck.
2006-08-11 01:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Lady Beth*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to appear shy not distant. im shy to but people know im shy not a snob
2006-08-11 01:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being shy is not good. You should overcome it.
Ask people to talk about themselves and show interest in them.
Your problems will melt away.
2006-08-11 01:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sweetie, all u have to do is butt into convo. people dont usually care and if they do, THEY r the snobs and u need to ditch em!
2006-08-11 01:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by bittersweet chokolatte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋