i have a "friend" who sleeps in my bed hugs me and says he does not want a girlfriend. but he really likes me he will have a relationship with me if i change my religion..
what should i do.. ??
2006-08-11 01:10:46 · 37 answers · asked by holygo_lightly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Push him to the curb. You should be able to hold on to your beliefs without being blackmailed into changing them for him or for anyone else.
Good luck!!
2006-08-11 01:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by No one 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Keep him as a friend that does not sleeping in your bed. Only change your religion if you want to.
Find somone else wants a boyfriend girlfriend relationship.
2006-08-11 01:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by Unique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he's in your bed, you want him to be there, otherwise you wouldn't ask the question. If you don't wish him to be in your bed, if you wish him not to cuddle you and hold you in his arms, just tell him to stop and tell him to leave your bed. It's simple as that.
He likes you and wants you but obviously he's respectful toward you and doesn't wish to do something what you wouldn't wish to happen..If you wish to have a relationship with him, he's ready for you...Is your religion really a problem when it's love about?
2006-08-11 01:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by Psychologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is your religion?
are you willing to have a relationship like this?
so, if you are "just friends" why is he in your bed at all?
he is a loser. get rid of him!!!
he is in your bed, no sex, and dont want a girlfriend? then what is this relationship?
"just friends" dont sleep in same bed, 'just friends" is sleeping in their own beds and own homes. and just hanging out doing things once in a while.
lose him, get rid of him!!!
2006-08-11 01:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I studied religions ..I know what this guy means..most probably he is a muslim or hindu...if he is a muslim ..he must be wrong in the fact islam doesn't require to change one riligion to be his wife or whatever ..unless there is a sect i dont know about ..but majority dont require,,besides majority nowadays do not adhere to riligion only follow civil law..i would say he is a clean man..looks like at least ...stick with him ..may be it turns out to be a great love life...GOOOD luck
2006-08-11 01:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by qwerty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is asking to much of you, to just be friends
He doesnt have no business sleeping in your bed, if you are just friends
You change your religion because you want
He can sleep in your bed when he becomes your husband
2006-08-11 03:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by chipmunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...first of all...i dont know who has random friends sleep in their bed...but anyway...even though he says he doesnt want a girlfriend...he obviously does...and religion is a powerful thing...it's a choice a single person makes...it's up to you and you alone to figure out which is more important to you...
good luck
2006-08-11 01:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by <3leighwhannell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Him that He can love you for the way you are. Don't change your religion for some guy that you don't know that you are going to marry. If y'all decide to get married then you can change your religion.
2006-08-11 01:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you willing to compromise your faith for a "might work relationship?" If so, then give it a try.
If not, then explain to him that you like him and would like to try a relationship with him, but you can't do it at that price. Tell him thanks and that it was a nice thought, but you can't give up something that's important to you and you hope he can find someone in his own religion that he likes as well as you. If he is going to be that narrow-minded, then you can afford to keep your pride, faith, and stubborness.
2006-08-11 01:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by AlloAllo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u in love with him?
are u willing to marry him and spend the rest of ur life with him.
are u convinced of that religion he is talking about?
if these 3 questions are all answered YES .then DO IT .
2006-08-11 01:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by Angle heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is looking for an excuse. Religion should not make a difference. Look for someone else, if you are looking for something romantic
2006-08-11 01:16:48 · answer #11 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋