This is the third time he has fallen in love. The girl in question is not only cheap but also does not fit in culturally. He is basically lonely and feels insecure since all of his other friends including me are married. Marriage is no play and we all feel he should take his time and pick. He fights with us saying we are jealous of him. How do we ensure we make him see our point of view without straining relations. As of now he is on a off mode as his current girlfriend does not like us bcoz of our point of view..
2006-08-11 01:06:39 · 15 answers · asked by SD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
mine does too....let them deal with there own life.....
2006-08-11 01:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ricknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a friend, be there for him to pick up the pieces if it doesn't work and let him know that you will be there.
And later in life be there to laugh about it over a beer when he has settled down and can look back and remember in jest!
2006-08-11 08:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by Whitelord 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see he is ur friend" a friend in need is a friend indeed" so u try to get solved his problem " hating a hundred right persons may not even touch ur heart , but loving a one wrong person makes ur heart unbroken throughout our life" ok u try urself to get him corrected all the best try to change the gal . nothing is impossible becoz the word impossible says itself that i m possible wish u all the best
2006-08-11 08:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by sam cmanisam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he doesn't really need your advice, since none of it has worked on him so far.
He's a grown man and he has to be responsible for his actions and their consequences.
You might advise as much as you want but if the horse is not drinking from the well, its no use flogging it?
2006-08-11 08:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by michael2003c2003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, he needs to make his own mistakes, and you are just trying to help. You want to see him with someone nice, not someone cheap as you say. Have you tried introducing him to anyone. You must know someone, or your wife. Give it a try. Good Luck.
2006-08-11 08:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could try minding your own business and letting him get on with his own life... just a suggestion....
There is a fine line between supportive and interfering, make sure you on the supportive side!
2006-08-11 08:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by dirtyminx82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your yardstick may not be suitable to be used on him. Every one has different taste ..like a saying '''Beauty in the eyes of the beholder'.
2006-08-11 08:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by Phantom of the Opera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him do his own thing. It is never a good idea to interfere in matters of the heart.
2006-08-11 08:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by The Eight Ball 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send him to a psychologist he needs help.
2006-08-11 08:11:30 · answer #9 · answered by rrxdeadman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
days and nights will give him the experience
2006-08-11 08:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by mabdelgaid2@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you yourself see a girl for him to get married (from your friends circle / relatives), then his problem and your problem will be solved.......
2006-08-11 08:12:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋