Lately i've discovered that I have feelins for a great friend of mine. We kno eachother for alomst 5 years now.
But I'm not sure if he feels the same way about me. Cuz its quite hard to read him.
He has always been super nice and caring and is always therefor me.
Should I tell him how I really feel, or should I just forget all bout ma feelings and leave it as friendship.......... ??? would hate to loose a super great friend.
2006-08-11 01:04:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When you tell a friend that your feelings are stronger, there is always a good chance that your relationship is going to change.
1. your friend could have the same feelings
2. your friend may not want to cross that line with you
3. you might scare your friend off
I think you have every right to share your feelings with your friend and just deal with whatever might happen
2006-08-11 03:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by chipmunk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
humde humde hum
Well then I have known 2 girls since preschool and now being a Freshman in High School I have aqquired great feeling towards them. Although I'm not a ladies man I do they same as ur guys showing attention, helping, and giving little gifts(even though they have bf's themselves) I hope to keep them as a friendship but later in H.S (after i get to know them to limits) i might ask one out since I have always been there for them. So I would suggest u wait awhile and then when ur ready ask him out.
2006-08-11 01:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by Boguck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the longer you spend time w/ a person of the opposite sex, the more that your feelings build towards that person especially in the adolescent stage.
take it slow. he might be nice & you might be falling for him but he might not like you back. maybe most of his super nice and caring attitude is just a way of showing how much he really values you as a friend.
however, if he acts like he wants to spend more time with you and is constantly twirling your hair, anything that he rarely does, then you can expect that he likes you more than just a friend.
2006-08-11 01:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by sharikay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know each other for over five years, Just say her name, we know each other for over five year, and to be honest, you are the only one I think I would want to start a relation ship with, what do you think about the idea she are he is going to laught out real loud, Dont be offended, it is just a shock to the person, but you will get a honest answer
2006-08-11 01:23:44 · answer #4 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, Has he given you any hints which definitely point in that direction ??? , if you are nice person as you say and known this guy for a long time , Better you let him know , Otherwise he might find someone else, it already looks like you have feelings , If he finds someone else , will you be able to still keep your feelings hidden ??? hmmm? .... miss ???
2006-08-11 01:08:34 · answer #5 · answered by OverDose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make any move until you are sure that even he is interested in you or if he won't mind to continue with you after knowing your feelings.
Try to analyis his feelings, then do accordingly..
Gud friends are really hard to find...
2006-08-11 01:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him
he sounds sincere enough to give you an honest yes or no.
2006-08-11 01:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will tell either way. ask yourself if you need him for more than afriend....yes? thengo for it,it could be worth everysecond.
no? you may regret it if he feels something,but finds someone else because he's thinking the same way?
me? isay just do it!!!! please tell me i helped.....or not
2006-08-11 01:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋