and how do i handle this "dont know what will happen situation"
is there any way i can communicate my feeling to him and still not look desperate. I am so scared of making a fool out of myself. is there anyway i can know how he feels. we are miles apart living in 2 different countries. but i can mail him. only if i have some valid reason.
2006-08-11 00:10:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Telling someone that you really like them and want to see more of them IS A VALID REASON
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2006-08-11 02:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it sounds like you are infatuated! If the two of you are living in two different Countries, why are you worried about making a fool out of your self and being desperate?
You should just go on with your life and find someone that is in the Country that you are in! If he had deep feelings for you, the way that you are saying that you have for him. He would contact you in some way and let you know! Don't tear yourself up over some one that is not even living in the same Country as you are! Especially when he is not even showing you that he is interested in you at all! You should move on, and do better things with your life! He is not the only fish that is in the sea!
Good Luck!!!!
2006-08-11 00:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one thing that I've been working hard with myself during the last year. The has been "doing what I really want". It sure is worth the try.
Like you said, your situation is: "dont know what will happen situation". All, you can do is play your part honest. Write to him, tell how you feel, tell him that you feel desperate. The important thing for you to be honest and brave. If he's not the man to handle your honesty than it's only good to get rid of him.
"You know, you come from nothing, you're going back to nothing. What have you lost? Nothing!"
2006-08-11 00:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by BonAqua Identity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it. Be honest about your feeling about him. What have you got to loose? If he is not interested you need to know so you can go on and find someone closer. That would be a valid reason to mail him.
2006-08-11 00:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by shortansassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 19:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by melaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like u have a serious crush on him.
love is a very powerful word, and not many really know what it means. u can mail him, just talk about everyday matters, gradually get close to him and get to know his feelings. then u can tell him about ur feelings. dont be hasty, let things take their time.
all the best!!!
2006-08-11 00:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the club,,,,,the beginnin of a possibl
relationship could be the most devastatin,sometimes
it feels like bettin 10000 on one single hand of cards.
go ahead and pursue it,
but try to occupy yourself with somethin you normally
like to do so your mind doesn becom obsessed
2006-08-11 00:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by use 2b light 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shld always tell ppl wht u feel abt them before it's too late.. but still i dnt think e-mail would be such a nice idea.. try to find more abt him n tell him whn u actually see him
2006-08-11 00:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by ashishnathsingh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never tell him till he opens up or till u feel you are not late in this matter! Experience and enjoy this feeling... After all you get this once in your life...
2006-08-11 00:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by Artin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hehe...same here, and we live on two different continents. Best of luck.
2006-08-11 00:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋