I think my bf of 5 yeasr is cheating. I found an email from him to a co worker stating. " how is your time off? I am bored already....need some excitement....any ideas....LOL What do you think?
2006-08-10 23:12:32 · 25 answers · asked by Jaymie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Actually she added her home phone number as well. I confronted him and all he did was make excuses
2006-08-10 23:34:23 · update #1
This does not mean he is actually having an affair, however he could be testing the water to see how far the flirting can take him. Its a sign of a problem, simply because he is seeking the attention of another woman. I wish you the very best. Try not to be paranoid, like I am sometimes...... just be cautious
2006-08-11 00:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him if he is bored and thinks this girl is what he is looking for .. then he should go for it. If he goes out with her..leave him. Why would you want to be with someone who wants to leave? I sure hope you are not shacked up with him.. it is no exhausting having to untangle the stuff you two may have accumulated.
If he says he is not interested in going out with her.. you have a keeper.. 5 years is long enough to date.. time to get married.
2006-08-11 06:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi i dont think his is cheating, but this does look suspisious. It seems to be in the starting phase so ask him if there is anything in your marriage that needs fixing or he is unhappy with that way your not accusing
2006-08-11 06:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet_Miss_Toni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would email her back and say that sounds like a personal prob and you dont see how your husband working with her has anything to do with her personal time ,but she may very well be a one of the guys type of girl and just likes to hang out bars etc,but her saying any ideas scares me.i got an idea for her alright.
2006-08-11 06:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats doesnt mean that he is cheating on u
perhaps he interacts with this girl alot and she misses him there
but be careful with her
she said she misses him
thats could mean she may like him
just ask him in a nice way
but be fool or blinded
2006-08-11 10:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop reading his email and driving him away! Start keeping him interested in YOU! Maybe things are boring...
2006-08-11 07:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh..that actually depends how u think..do u trust him?
if u trust him,u won't doubt him..if u suspect anything, just ask him personally, and see what is his reaction..then u can make the decision yourself..coz everyone have different views of these things..trust your own feelings and instinct..ask yourself whether do u trust him a not..good luck!
2006-08-11 06:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like cheating to me. If you don't trust him than you two need to talk about that. If you do trust him than it's nothing to worry about.
The question is... Do you trust him? and if "No" then why not?
2006-08-11 07:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by Sensei Rob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are snooping in his private e-mail so you are not that "pure" yourself. Yes, he is probably cheating.....have you ever thought of asking him? He is bored and needs excitement.......pack up and leave him.....that should be exciting!
2006-08-11 06:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Notice how most guys are saying doesn't mean anything....and most girls are saying its cheating or signs of cheating...yeah. You're best bet is to talk to him sweetie. Good luck!
2006-08-11 06:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋