My bofriend is working in abroad we are in love with each other from last 6 months , the problem is he wants to marry me when he will comedown to india during his holidays that too registred ,but he wants me to keep this marriage in secret , as at his place his parents are not giving permission to him to get married to me .And also he will also not take me to abroad after our marriage
2006-08-10 22:20:54 · 9 answers · asked by me f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't do it. Wait to get married until you can actually be together. And you should never be a secret from his parents. If they don't want him to marry you, he has to stand up to them and say it's his choice, and he chooses you.
2006-08-10 22:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What surerity do you have that when the two of you are married life will be different from what you two have now. Stop kidding yourself. If he wants to marry you and keep it secret from his parents then he is being selfish. Marriage is a huge step to take and besides is that how you dreamt of getting married. Apart from both your parents getting hurt you will not have their blessings and you will be setting your marriage up for curses. Your parents are wiser than you and you are so lost in infatuation that you do not realise what a huge mistake you are contemplating. WAKE UP & SMELL THE COFFEE.
2006-08-11 05:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't commit your self to a guy who doesn't have a blessings from his parents,and trying to keep your marriage in secret,that means the guy is not ready to settled down yet,and if he doesnt want to take you where he live,it means he doesnt really love you,I'm pretty sure about that,because if he really loves you he will take you wherever he is, and live together as a husband and wife,and he should marry you that everyone knows and not to keep it secret.you can still find a better one who will loves you no matter what,so dont rush your self,take your time and make sure the guy is really proud to marry you,and his parents accept you as a member of their family,and pray to our God to help you,and guides you for everything,good luck!
2006-08-11 05:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_apple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Why does he want to get married if you will not be together and he won't tell his parents? It sounds like he just wants his wedding night and run. The problems will just get worse if his parents are trying to get him to marry someone else.
2006-08-11 05:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In that case, please don't commit with him as he can't give you any assurance. If you insist, you will be suffered and at the end you will end up a bitter ending.
You may continue the friendship but not recommending in relationship as he sound to me very selfish who couldn't bother your feeling at all. I were you, my answer is BREAK OFF.
Get someone who really there for you, proudly announce you & open relationship where everyone are aware of your existence.
2006-08-11 05:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree- don't do it. If you cannot marry without his parents knowing it won't be good. And why would he marry you and not live you/take you abroad? Um, no.
2006-08-11 05:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, all I can say is don't commit anything unless it is completely open. Because you can't say anything about these kind of things.
2006-08-11 05:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by Eternity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it!!
2006-08-11 06:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not do it something is fishy
2006-08-11 06:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋