My son is very bright boy to see through what his Father really is and my daughter 5 years ago saw the real person her Father really is . Both of them DO NOT want to be apart of their Father's adultery lifestyle. My other daughter { Holly } is living over there for 4 years now because she don't have any rules there & getting away with what she wants. When Holly was with me I had rules and made her to do things which Leslie told Holly that I love her than I won't make her to do them. They are now having major problems with Holly. Holly is 15 yrs.When Paul is with his girlfriend who was my X - best friend { Leslie Nyilas } he is very cure & abruseful toward our kids but when he is not with his girlfriend he is nice to our kids. Also when Paul was with me before he left me 5 years ago he would give "hugs , kisses , & say I love you " to our 3 kids but Paul does NOT do that anymore.......... Why did he stop doing that ?Paul could care less for our kids. Where did his conscience went to ?
2006-08-10 21:31:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is now more concerned about his gf's opinion and she probably doesn't treat them well and he's too spineless to stand up to her. Just keep your kids away, he doesn't deserve them and its your job to protect them.
2006-08-10 21:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there im sorry that you an i have this in common ,i left my husband last year and that was after 21 years of his crap an abuse we have three girls together and the oldest one and just dont talk at the moment the other 2 well we have a good relationship together ,now this is where he has told the youngest one that he hopes that she ends up in care ,that really hurt her the middle 1 has been told that she is a disgrace and has let him down to new limits ,and it just goes on an on ,look all i can say is that youre her mum stay the way you are dont change in any way she will come back to you ,as for the girl friend well she is in for a big shock very soon ,she is trying to be a mate to her and when there is a big problem to youre daughter she will come to you ,keep talking to her and stat in the picture with her at all costs ,as for there dad well he will learn the hard way and will regret his actions one day just keep doing the job youre doing being a good mum to yourekids and let youre x get on with it you never know the girl friend will probably get fed up and move on
2006-08-11 05:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the sake of your children, please step up and be the parent here! obviously, your husband is not.
take your child back home with you. get family counseling and perhaps parenting skills. it's not too late.
get a divorce; you shouldn't have to live this way. hold him accountable for his actions because for every wrong action, there are consequences!
good luck
2006-08-11 04:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His girlfriend is influencing his behavior. He's a hypocrite in front of her. Keep your kids away from them.
2006-08-11 04:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe,the man is a fool he will regret it oneday, the only thing i can suggest is tell him you will not let him see the children if he carries on being an ********.
2006-08-11 04:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by peterrod@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋