And this person loved you too. Would you leave your partner for that person?
Do you think this is ethically right or wrong?
2006-08-10 21:31:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know for sure one thing: being honest is ethically right. If you stay with one person but you are not able to give him all your love...that's bad. Maybe you deprive him of new chances to fall in love with someone who will love him as well. Sorry, if I was a bit rude. But that's what I think. Life is often unjust: we love someone who doesn' love us; someone loves us but we canno respond truly to that. Make your choice but try not insult your current partner. You should know it's a great pain when someone leaves you. Really great...
2006-08-10 21:37:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're not married to your "partner" then the kindest thing you can do, is leave him/her and embark on a fulfilling relationship with the person whom you love and who loves you too. But if you are married, then perhaps you should seriously ask yourself whether there are empty gaps in your marriage that has contributed to your developing feelings for someone else, whether those feeligns are genuine or on the rebound. Take quiet time aside, sit at the beach, listen to the waves, close your eyes, and pass on that question to your sub conscious mind. Spend a few minutes just quietly reflecting without controlling the direction of your thoughts. only you can answer and make a decision that is best suited for you all.
2006-08-11 05:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by diegocab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you and this person you love are both single (meaning not married), then by all means, leave your respective partners and be together.
However, if you or your partner or both are married with kids, then your actions will have greater consequences coz having children means you're not only responsible for your own lives but also your children's lives as well.
If neither of your has children, get a divorce before hooking up with the one you love.
Clean breaks will give you a fresh start and its the best way to go unless you thrive on messy relationships.
2006-08-11 04:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by ladyluck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, are you ' in love' or ' love' some one? if you only ' in love', it might only last for a while or a few months. then if you really love him/her who is you really want, then go for it.. no good because you have a partner, then you have to give up on the person you really love. But of course, if you are married, then devoice may cost you are unexpected in all the ways. Then take him/ her as a lover. Sometimes in life, you can't have everything, but you can make the most of it! Good luck!
2006-08-11 04:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Tomorrowalwaysbetter! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. It is ethically and morally WRONG! You should NOT if you are married or engaged to be married. You should have, long since, stopped being involved in relationships with other individuals before becoming engaged. Would you like someone to lead you into believing that he or she was fully committed to you for years, then, suddenly, have that person walk away from you to enter into another relationship?? I think NOT. Unfortunately, this dishonest, cruel and indecisive behavior is all too common today.
2006-08-11 04:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there any children involved? I think its morally wrong because if you decide to leave your partner, you will be making someone unhappy at the expense of you happiness. Tough to make a decision, though. Good luck!
2006-08-11 05:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by metztli99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what do you mean by "partner"? Are you married or cohabiting with one person but in love with another? That's a bad situation to be in; you shouldn't allow yourself to fall in love with another person in the first place if you're in such a seriously committed relationship.
Are you just in a dating relationship? It's called breaking up. People do it all the time.
Just my two cents.
2006-08-11 04:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would follow my heart, just because you love this person more than you partner doesn't mean that they are any good for you. I think you should stay with your partner and let the relationship run its course because you don't want karma to come back and bite you in the a$%.
2006-08-11 04:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by chocolatechick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been in this type if situation.. I loved my husband but I also lovesd the other person... I wish I would have taken the other road withthe other person... I have been un happy for so long you need to figure out who you love more & for what reasons.. & then decide what to do
2006-08-11 04:53:54 · answer #9 · answered by bite_me_harder_28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would follow my heart. There's no point in living a lie. It isn't fair for my partner or myself.
2006-08-11 04:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋