Recently my bf had just went to jail 4 being @ the worng place & people the other day his sis n law needed a favor so I meet her at one of his friends house that he been friends for years. After I did the favor I stayed for a couple mins & talked to my bfs freind we were talkn abt the past. His frnd said that he had brght this one grl over n they were partyn and my bf & his bro bumped this chick while he video taped them. He said we were broke up but we never broke up & my bf ended breaking his phone. What should I do shld i wait to confront him when he gets out or when i see him or not say nothing at all AND GO CRAZY!!!! remind also this will go out to his bro wife to....Pls help me.
2006-08-10 21:29:15 · 10 answers · asked by stacia1469 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-08-10 21:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by bite_me_harder_28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him in a place where he can't go hurting you for wanting to know the truth.To just sit there and keep on wondering if it was true or not is only going to hurt you so deep inside that you will go crazy.it all depends on how much you love this guy and if you think it is worth doing something about it but you obviously deserve to know the truth no matter what as cheating is one of the hardest thigs any man can do to a woman.i am a man and I know I could never even think of doing something like that to the one I love.
2006-08-10 21:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some one taught me long ago never take what other people tell you at face value specialy if its about other people-- maybe he is lieing to you --i mean would your bf do something like that? if you know its something he would do you need to leave him and go find another and better guy! but if you really trust him and thats not his nature talk to him but dont just go and shout at him and blame him slowly bring it up and say it bothers you and you want to know why his brother said that
2006-08-10 21:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh, if he cheats once he'll cheat again and you don't know how much video tape of who or what is floating around. and being in jail should be a red flag in it's self just to stay clear.
i would just drift away to save face.
good luck.
2006-08-10 21:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by mia t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him right away...cheating is cheating lah...once he did that there's a posibility to do that once again and once again...
But...if you're ready to take all the consequences...that's alright and go crazy...
Ask him when and why he did that, if it make sense to you, stay with him, else...i don't think he worth your love girl!
2006-08-10 21:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by belle_chocolatiere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him about the accusation because if it did happen you have right to know and so does his brother's wife(especially).
2006-08-10 21:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by chocolatechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you already know this by know but confront your problem trust me it will all go away, and cheating well...
2006-08-11 00:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself one question....do you want to be a doormat...and ask to see the supposed video tape
2006-08-10 21:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him. i just have this feeling that he is not the right guy for you!
Liar, cheater, ..... things which make me think he does not deserve you.
2006-08-10 21:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one volt for, GO CRAZY
2006-08-10 22:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by flat head & one eye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋