My husband and I got divorced after 7 years and 2 kids and now he wants to work things out . Im not sure since he is the one that wanted out and I have seen that life truely is ok without him !!
2006-08-10 21:02:15 · 29 answers · asked by i_wanna_be_your_babygirl_tonite2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's like going to the refrigerator taking a big swig of spoiled milk and saying well maybe it'll be good tomorrow.
2006-08-17 14:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by noname 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with getting back together if you love him still and he is willing to change. About 8 years ago my husband and I divorced, I remarried in 2001 and if I had the chance to be with him again and work things out I would. We were both young and we fought over the little things, Now we have both grown and I believe if we had a chance now we would make it this time.. Follow your heart and if you really love him then go for it, if not then tell him it is totally over and he needs to go on.. I wish you all the luck and happiness..
2006-08-10 23:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by Talia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. You got a taste of what life w/out him is like and you obviously liked it so stick with it!
But, if you really want to know if you should start over again, ask yourself these questions: do you trust him? can you trust him? what are the chances of him doing what he did the first time to end the marriage? will both of you work together and equally this time around to make the relationship work?
I worked with a woman who questioned this thought as well. She wasn't divorced long but was married to this man for 20+ years. They had 3 kids together. They always kept in contact (for the kids) and the relationship was good. However, he wanted more. We discussed it; she listed the good and bad, they went on dates but ultimately, she chose not to.
But, only you will know. Follow your heart. Good luck
2006-08-10 21:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by angel eyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i will date you
2006-08-10 21:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to...why not? If you are committed to working on your relationship and avoiding what caused you to divorce I see no problem with it. The only way it would work though is if you are both committed to making it work. For you to ask the question shows there are still some good feelings for him. You know you can live without him, if you feel you would be happier with him go for it!
2006-08-10 21:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by r0cky74 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would depend on why you divorced in the first place. Usually it's better not to go back. You said yourself that you are ok without him. Just date him and enjoy the fun. No reason to have papers. Your married in your hearts or your not.
2006-08-17 09:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by snowhite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This reminds of a good friend's mom and her man. They been on and off for 20+ years. Sometimes they're married and sometimes they're not. I never saw anything good come of that relationship, except they use to drink a lot and my friend and I make a bunch of money recycling the bottles and cans as kids.
2006-08-17 08:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by Mack L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from personal experience, no. i remarried my ex and brought another child into the picture and that ment another heart to break. what ever didn't work the first time didn't just disappear, it maybe hidden now because some time has passed but believe me sweetheart it is not gone and will show its ugly head again. but what ever you decide best wishes!
2006-08-16 11:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by katinalln 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends if we're both mature enough to make it work the second time around. It seems like you're doing great without him in your life. What do you want? Only you can answer this one;
2006-08-10 21:18:03 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BAD idea! Remarrying ex almost always NEVER works out because the same problems and difficulties resurface. DON'T do it, dear! Big mistake.
2006-08-10 21:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋