I becomed a widower in 1995 since then have nearly all my relatives..simblings and friends died..it feels as a curse..
2006-08-10 20:56:33 · 12 answers · asked by birgitha2001 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I will share my family with you-- Im from Lafayette Louisiana, and we are all family in Cajun Country, we would be happy to have you join us-- just email me at ibelieveditall@yahoo.com -- Laissez les bones temp rouler (let the good times roll)
2006-08-10 21:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by ibelieve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is indeed a thing of great sorrow ! But having lost all such near and dear ones, why not accept the reality, and try to look at the positive side !
People try to isolate themselves from relatives, to get rid of bondage, in order to pursue spiritual quest. Now, even if spiritual path does not interest, why not "treat" the whole world as a family, and surely, there are many kind beings who would gladly respond and become much much more loving than even the best well knit families of natural relatives !
2006-08-11 04:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me, sorta. Both my parents died when I was little. I have 15 siblings that I haven't seen for twenty-two years....it gets better 18 months ago one of my sisters found me (we were all separated) and since then we have recovered 5 of us. I guess what I am trying to say is you can do it without your family. Enjoy life, you are only issued one. What do you think your spouse would have wanted you to do? Lift your head up and move forward. There is a lot to see in this world. Start enjoying it.
2006-08-11 04:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by frogspeaceflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are millions of people out ther to make friends with at any age, I am sorry you have lossed alll of your loved ones that you can see, but there are only a couple of things you can do, you can continue your life being alone and sad about all of the loved ones you have lossed, or you can go make some new friends, I am sure that your deceased friends and family would want you to do this, I know no one can ever be replaced, but you can always make some new friends
2006-08-11 04:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must know that we have have to die. While this is not easy to be the one left behind or alone. You have to be willing to accept the fact that they are gone. There are so many lonely people in this World that need to have a good friend to care for them, just wait God will place someone in your life that will help you to cope.God Loves You and He does not want you to feel alone. Ask God to send someone to you and he will.
2006-08-11 04:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by SecretUser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too have had multiple family member losses. I'm very sorry you had to go through this.Maybe you would like to be a moderator at groww.com
2006-08-11 04:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by a_phantoms_rose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to put all that pain behind you. you are important. if you werent then you wouldnt have survived. you should find yourself someone a man or a women (depending on gender) and start a new life.
2006-08-11 04:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is NOT a curse. You can always make new friends -- and relatives.
2006-08-11 04:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by Kanda 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The circle of life.
2006-08-11 04:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by Silver L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd certainly try to multiply myself, and will try to continue my race.
2006-08-11 04:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by Ω Nookey™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋