i and my bf is so much in love, we have sex once a month. when he kisses me in public i get high. but when we go to hotel to have sex i am not horny or sexual aroused . in order we always have bad sex only. we did only in my house once and i was quite high. but not so aroused. sometime it makes me cry that why i am not high enough... is something wrong with me. or him.. he always carry my leg and does it i prefer putting my leg down/ but he can't go thru. he can go in but can't come out and in. he can't move in and out. is he too big for me? help pls...
2006-08-10 20:53:57 · 13 answers · asked by Sanjana G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Use KY. It's amazing.
2006-08-10 20:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by tonya86_chipmunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may find that it a problem with you both.You both need to relax and take it slow as for him being to big he may just have to slow things down a bit till you can accomodate him better.Try just rubbing kissing licking each other and giving each other a massage try getting some books from the library or the internet that you can both read and learn to take is slow with each other.No one can have great sex all the time but when it is done in a very loving tender way it can be almost explosive for the both of you.
2006-08-11 04:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to be intoxicated to enjoy sex with your boyfriend and he is having difficulties performing intercourse with you now, you both need to stop having sex and reevaluate your relationship.
If you were a married couple, I would suggest that you try other positions for sexual intercourse. Since you are not committed to each other socially or legally, I am suggesting that you would probably enjoy sex more with someone whom you really had a friendship and a committment from, instead of just a boyfriend who gives you sex once a month and takes you to a hotel instead of to his private residence. End it now before you get pregnant!
2006-08-11 04:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use lubricant for him to be able to slide in and out easier. One thing that he can't do this is because you are not enough aroused and so your body does not produce enough natural lubricant. Maybe you are not communicating enough with your boyfriend to tell him what your body likes.
Try different positions as different positions create different sensations & pleasures for every person.
Maybe the thrill of being kissed in public gets you highly aroused while being alone diminishes this arousal. It is quite common to feel higher when you have that thrill of being cuaght doing the sexual act.
2006-08-11 04:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For sure get the KY jelly. Play a little game take a day in bed and take turns trying to turn each other on.Make sure that nobody gets any untill you both are climing the walls,intercourse that is, anything else is fair game.If you still can't get turned on either you are frigid or your boy doesn't know how to get things hot. Don't you get turned on a bit by turning him on?If so use it!
2006-08-11 04:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by gidge66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not understanding one bit of your question. Maybe you ought to try something, what that is I have no Idea.
2006-08-11 04:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by saint_lee26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then i suggest the doggie style awwwawaf! hehehe but anyways the guy your w/ for sure has tiny tweety incy mincy lil bird...
2006-08-11 03:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that its just wrong timing but my friend thinks your trying to hard and maybe he just have wrong timing too
2006-08-11 04:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u are not speaking proper english no one can understand this question therefore, maybe the man u are with cant understand u neither.. please use birth control so u dont bring kids in the world that can't speak either
2006-08-11 04:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by sssoulchild 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What? You sound like you both need a cold shower. Get lost!
2006-08-11 03:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol i think u still have alot 2 learn ur not in love i think its only infatuation.. newayz..omg..lol
2006-08-11 04:02:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋