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the problem is that my parents and my relatives told us my cousins,sister and all children that if they want to marry they must do it only wiz those who are of the same caste and religion.
otherwise,they will break all ties...
thinking of all that ,i often say that i wont get married be it love or arranged....
how do i convinced them
change their way of thinking
i like someone and he wants to marry me bt he's nt of the same religion.
i dnt want to hurt my parents and that boy
wat do i do am confused

2006-08-10 20:52:23 · 4 answers · asked by shik 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

4 answers

How religious is he...if not that much, if he loves you and at the same time want to be accepted by your parents...he can convert. If he is a strong believer of his own religion, and your parents threaten to break ties if you would marry him...i think if they are your parents they will learn to accept it. If they decide to break ties, just live happily with your hubby...it's not your fault for being open minded and loving someone. Times are changing and your parents need to learn that it ain't the same as it used to be. Love conquers all.

2006-08-10 21:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 0 0

ask yourself, who do you have to live with for the rest of your life.
if others don't like your decisions, they have to live the consequnces of thier actions. don't be be manipulated by what others say or do! be true to your heart. if things don't work out the way you want, tomorrow always brings new opportunities. live your life not someone elses. happiness comes from within!

2006-08-11 04:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by sllyjo 5 · 0 0

set your priorities right gal?see what you want in life?whats your age?

talk to your folks,confide in your mom and tell them about your decision,only if you are sure about this guy and his background!!

2006-08-11 04:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by country_girl 5 · 1 0

What makes it right for your parents to be prejudice? That is what they are.

2006-08-11 03:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0 0

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