HI everyone most or all of you must have heared this before I love you?
Why is it when these three words are put together they have the most powerful impact?
When someone says or you say i love for the first time the only true answer that person/you what/s to hear is i love you back.
ALso do you think it loses its true meaning after a period of time, if said over and over to the same person.
When you say the words do you mean it but must importantly do you really feel that why about that person!
Have you ever said i love you just because someone else said it to you and you didnt want to hurt there feelings or have you said i love you just to get something in return.??
2006-08-10 20:42:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
saying these three words are kind of hard for most people who are sensitive to other people's feelings. for the reason that they always think ahead of what the other person might feel or what his reaction would be. on the other hand, there are people too who just don't care how the other person feels so it just comes easy for them to say i love you even though they don't feel it even a bit towards him or her.
with regards to my personal opinion, i admit that saying these three little words could result to a deeper relationship or a disaster. A deeper relationship if you really mean what you say and catastrophe(what a word) if you just don't wanna hurt the other person's feelings. so i would prefer to say whatever that is in my heart even though it would hurt the other person, at least it would only for a while. prolonging the agony is very unfair to the other person.
2006-08-10 20:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by issa2169 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been in love with anyone before. And I've never said it to any of my boyfriends. Only one guy has ever said it to me. It was the day after his high school graduation and I was two years behind him. We were just hanging out and he blurted it out. We hadn't even been dating. He looked so sad when he said it, like it hurt him to feel that way about me..because he couldn't have me, because he knew I didn't feel the same.. I knew he meant it, but I didn't say it back because I liked him a lot, a LOT, but it wasn't love yet. I would never say "I love you" just to make a guy feel better. And I would never use it as a way to get something. I'm just not that kind of girl. Those three words are S.A.C.R.E.D.
2006-08-11 03:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is big. Don't say it if you don't think you are going to mean it. If some one tells you they love you just smile and give a hug and change the subject really quick, that should give the hint your not ready yet.
Yes, I said I love you to some one that said it to me and it was just a friend kind of thing. Also, you are thinking to much of it.
2006-08-11 03:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by tonya86_chipmunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, hundreds of times.
2006-08-11 03:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by Bud B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i said i luv u to my b/f brcause i do luv him
2006-08-11 03:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by just live 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋