I love to pleasure my wife with my tongue but when I asked her to shave she got mad. I offered to shave and surprised her by shaving but she still won't. What's the big deal with woman and pubic hair.
2006-08-10 20:39:56 · 20 answers · asked by trailsman1961 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow.
Helping your wife shave will be a very sensual experience. My boyfriend did that for me. It was erotic. It's just the intimacy involved. She is missing out. . . . I know . Next time you guys get naked and are about to do it, bust out your shaver and just shave away. Not saying a word and doing it is SEXY .
OR....
I'm sure you told her shaving will make is more sensational between the two of you, yet she still won't.
She needs to not take it personal and lighten up. Ask her if she ever heard of brazilian waxing. If not , then enlighten her about it. Eva Longoria swears by it, that it makes sex SOOO much more PLEASURABLE.
And then, she can take the first step of shaving regularly and maybe decide to try the waxing one day. :) Good Luck
2006-08-10 20:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shaving the pubes is a relatively recent fad, and a stupid one at that.Pubic hair is a signal that a woman is or is becoming sexually mature. Shaving it all off makes her pubic area look like a child's. That is NOT sexy, that is PERVERTED. Just look at the news of all the child molesters out there. Another thing- there is nothing nice about shaved pubes after a couple days, the stubble is like sandpaper that will rub a guys face or groin raw!. A little trim to keep it inside bikinis is fine. And to those who talk about it being cleaner, try plenty of soap and water. A clean and natural little bush is the BEST!
2006-08-12 11:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Happy Max 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
OK...I'm not a woman. I had the same problem. My wife was so thick with pubs it was hard to do the job...no joke! We had to move all the thick hair around just to be able to insert. She had 2" pubs sticking out her bathing suit. It looked terrible. I could not understand how she could tolerate that because she was sooooo modest. One day I set the hall mirror on the floor. When she walked up to it she about died! She honestly had no idea, (despite the fact I told her a dozen times) that she looked that bad. Needless to say we bought an electrolysis machine and a couple years later I had her talked down to a runway. The real bonus is sex felt sooo much better for both of us! She was much happier being nearly bald! She also came a whole lot quicker and more often. The pubs were acting like sand paper. They were hindering the feeling and not helping it. Hope this helps you with maybe some ideas to talk about. Good luck!
2006-08-11 04:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by r0cky74 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you ask her why exactly she got mad with you... try to understand why she won't do it & try to help her understand why you want it done... come to a compromise pal!
Personally, I have very thin skin... I suffer from painful ingrown hairs when I try shaving my pubic hair. Some chicks have thick skin & it doesn't affect them at all... it grows back with no prob.
Try not to make her feel obligated to do it... it's not too fair on her if she'll be affected by it. She might become self concious then stop enjoying it altogether. Please talk to her about it.
2006-08-11 04:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm no girl but i'd like to help you out. explain to her that this is something of importance to you, something that'll bring joy to your heart. patience my man. it's like courting her all over again. don't go telling her that since you're pleasuring her, she's obligated to do so in return by shaving. gently tell her the beauty of going bald down there, i.e. how she'll feel it more, how it will open up her nerves down there more. also, get her slowly into it by asking her to trim her pubic hair in lieu of shaving. then work on it some more until you get her to shave. remember, don't obligate her, cajole her into it. patience.
2006-08-11 03:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Big Daddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to like to shave mine but when I met my husband he wanted all natural so that it is but it just depends. Maybe she is self concious. Perhaps you two can come up with a compromise. Talk to her, and ask what the issue is. But ask her in a nice way, don't get all mad. See why she won't. Good luck. Happy Licking!
2006-08-11 03:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Preference and perhaps the fact of how they were raised. Sex was never discussed in families and neither was shaving so keeping it the way nature intended is what these women only know.
2006-08-11 04:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are different. I like to trim or shave mines.
2006-08-11 03:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's kind of weird. To me unshaven is like that '70's bush ya know? I love it when my husband shaves mine. We make all sorts of designs down there if were in the mood.
2006-08-11 03:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by ~SSIRREN~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am shaved, and it is time consuming to keep it shaved but i think once she does she will enjoy the feeling of beeing cleaner after she shaves. but maybe she just wants to be lazy, quit giving her oral and she migh tcome around to it or tell her she doesnt have to shave it but just keep it trimmed.
2006-08-11 03:45:54 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋