Incidentally I find masturbation more satisfying than sex with same partner. Am I normal ?
2006-08-10 20:39:03 · 6 answers · asked by indian b 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, pleasuring yourself and finding it more satisfying is very normal. As far as infusing some zest in your sex life, its got to start with communication. You both need to begin a dialogue about what you'd both like sexually and then find time to pleasure each other in new ways. Often times changing the place you make love or the circumstances can be exciting too!
Best of luck!
2006-08-10 20:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by ididntdoitthedogdid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, though masturbation is normal, I don't think liking it more than sex is normal. You need to talk to your partner. Even maybe see a counselor, sex counselor. Or if you want to be more discreet, there are tons of books out there so you can get some ideas that way. However first and foremost you need to find out what your partner is feeling also. Is it boring to him/her also. Would they like to spice it up? Communication is the key! A few personal choices I'd recommend is role play. Buy/make some costumes. A nurse outfeit or sex slave and play. Get real nasty with it or whatever. You could try blind folding or binding eachother. Try other rooms or spontaneous sex. If possible take a day off of work and set up a romantic date. Try things you haven't done before or things you used to do that drove eachother crazy, sexually that is. If all else fails ask about a threesome. Hope this was helpful! Good luck!
2006-08-11 03:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a trip to the adult store and buy some "toys". That should spice up the bedroom. Role playing can be good too. Better yet, try doing a lap dance.
2006-08-11 03:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i could give you some advice... Most don't want to put here. One thing I will say is talk to your partner about fantasies he or she might have.. Do something out of the ordinary be it sex outdoors, roleplay is good as well. Email me if you would like to talk..
2006-08-11 04:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the both of u needs to talk about it and it may get better or try therapy or talk to him why its boring after 16 years.
2006-08-11 04:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by i was addicted to his love!!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
purchase some lingerie, toys, learn to strip, call your partner at work and talk sexy to him!
2006-08-11 07:17:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋