i have liked this guy for 3 years but i cant like him anymore its making me to depressed ..has anyone got some advice for me how to get over him and deal with a broken heart??
2006-08-10 20:31:53 · 11 answers · asked by sxc_bubss 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Personally, I have found that if I "can't like him anymore," it is because he has done something to make me really angry. That anger has a cleansing effect. So does flirting with a more worthy man. But don't get too serious with the next guy too soon -- you need to gain some perspective and learn to enjoy your own company for awhile before you let another man become important to you.
Use the opportunity to do something you've long wanted to do, but couldn't because that ex-boyfriend didn't like it, or wouldn't spare you the time for it. Go see something you've wanted to see, do something you've wanted to do. Not dangerous stuff; but like renting a horse and going riding, or visiting a museum about which you have long been curious, or like that. When I lived in San Francisco and had an emotional disappointment, I used to take the ferry boat to Sausalito. Going over the water was refreshing, and Sausalito was enough different in style to give me a break and a lift. I usually spent more money than I should, but that's life.
2006-08-10 20:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From being there and being a mom,best advice I could give my children was time.Its going to take time.Cry,listen to all the songs that make you miss him to get it out of your system,you have to deal with it in your own way.People tell you to move on or get over and thats what you are doing now.It takes time to heal when you cut yourself,it takes time to heal a broken heart isnt any different.Hang in there and I know one day that prince charming will come along and this guy will be the last thought you will have.Good luck.
2006-08-11 03:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by halfbright 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to realize that there are 2 billion men in this world, and... this guy probably isn't the greatest one of them all. You will find someone else eventually. The best thing you can do for yourself is to get comfortable with just being you, and then a relationship will be a lot easier for you, and usually a lot healthier. Also, finding a hobby or a passion in life usually takes your mind off that person who's hurting you. Another option... pick someone else to drool over for a while.. switch it up every once in a while..
2006-08-11 03:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by vanillafr0st1ng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u work with this person? ask for a transfer, dont write to him,accept his calls or gifts if thats the case start dating someone else just to get out of the house. dont go to places the two of you went too keep a journal about your feelings there may also be a yahoo group that deals with broken hearts over a relationship
2006-08-11 03:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by oceanlady580 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 YEARS?!?!?! WOW you should have told the guy you liked him and if he didn't like u then you move on and find another guy. How could u have waited so long for one guy when you could have been out dating. Thats actually weird to me and it makes no sense. why would u even be sad to move on it seems like your obsessed w/ this guy and u were probably stalking him which is weird.
2006-08-11 03:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by meekyle22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on, you may be hurting, but there are other fish in the sea. You'll meet somebody who is truly right for you someday. Until then, just put one foot in front of the other.
2006-08-11 03:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eghh. been through this soo many times. eventually, you will get over him. but if your trying to get over him, look for other hawtt guys out there!
2006-08-11 03:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
-let time heal your wounds...eventually YOU WILL get over him
-talk about it...to get it off your chest
-or find someone else to take your mind off this guy
2006-08-11 03:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by marshmallow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him directly or just try to avoid him
2006-08-11 03:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by prakriti_scorp123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another guy, grrl! Gone's gone - move on!
2006-08-11 03:56:35 · answer #10 · answered by MaqAtak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋