he keep telling me that God has a poupose 4 us meeting.i love him so much that it hurts me.he did not tell me about the other woman before,what can i do to have him all to myself.pls i want him all to myself someone help me pls
2006-08-10 20:24:32 · 10 answers · asked by lilly 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
nothing you got played and that is all there is to it. if you thing he will be just yours you are dead wrong because there will be someone just like you on the side
2006-08-10 20:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by drunkenbastard4135 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, he doesn't sound like your prince charming, if he lied to you long enough for you too fall in love, and if he is so convincing at lying, then how can you ever trust him?? Don't lower your standards to be the "other woman". Think about your prince charming, and realize that you want to be treated like a princess.. not like seconds.. You don't have to fight for anyone's love.. Don't turn into one of those women you used to look at, and think.. pathetic!! You shouldn't be waiting for a man to have time for you, you should be his priority, and it doesn't sound like you are his priority.. Can you imagine your future with him?? Never knowing when he's lying..never knowing when he's cheating??.. No.. you deserve a lot better than that.. you deserve to be worshiped, and you need to believe it.. Besides, can you really live with yourself being the "other woman", or succeeding and destroying a relationship, or even a marriage?? I don't think he's worth it, and for what it's worth, I feel sorry for the other girl..
2006-08-11 03:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by verito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I recognize this feeling and gotta say I feel for ya. I think you need to be prepared to accept an open relationship (if he's gonna have one so should you) or give an ultimatum its her or me, and stand by your decision to walk no matter how much it hurts theres always someone else to love that will love you back and not play you and phunk with your heart. Good luck and best wishes.
2006-08-11 03:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by PeaceTree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, NO MAN is worth it. Your sentence makes not sense but anyway, no one is worth your angst. God has better things to do than worry about you and some nitwit of a guy who is now leaving with some other broad. There are milliions of men out there. Go find one.
2006-08-11 03:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheer up girl.
i know how u feel because i used to be in tt situation.
he doesn't deserve ur love after all the stabbing.
rmb, there are better guys out there and one of the HOTTEST might be crushing on you.
dont let go of this opportunity.
hope u find the right one.
if u dont, u could always date my brother.
* winks , LOL.
SMILE NOW !
2006-08-11 03:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by Wide Ruled Paper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong for him to use God as an excuse. It sounds like he's lying... Guys are jerks like that. It's not your fault, guys really just try to get into our pants. Good luck sweet heart:) Please be hardened by life's lessons. Dont fight for this guy. If he isn't fighting for you he ISN"T worth fighting for. You're worth way more. Go find a guy that wants YOU and ONLY you.
2006-08-11 03:28:20 · answer #6 · answered by Christine4tw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's clearly giving you grief. give him up, he was never honest to begin with. somebody like that is bound to hurt you more. focus your attention on somebody more deserving. keep yourself busy and occupied to take your thoughts away from him. give it time, but be firm, resolute and strong. be happy :)
2006-08-11 03:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the man go he ain't yours!
2006-08-11 03:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by blacksugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray
2006-08-11 03:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray and socialise!the best way(to me)
2006-08-11 03:31:07 · answer #10 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋