i decided to be honest with my girlfriend all of the time because that's what a lot of people want. so i went on a visit somewhere foa week and i met this girl and she started to hit on me and i fell for it and i made out with her. i told my girlfriend what i did because i wanted to tell the truth. would it have been better to lie to her because now she is pissed as hell
2006-08-10 20:23:08 · 24 answers · asked by linda j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes u r responsible for ur act...
2006-08-10 20:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by lookatumiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO telling the truth is always best bcos the truth has a very funny way of comin out.It would have come out at some point there4 it is best that u told her b4 she found out by accident. it might be hard 4 her now, but if she loves you she'll come around and she'll kiss you and thank you 4 bein honest with her.by doin what you did, you just stregthened her trust on you.its only a matter of time b4 she realises that. but do ever do what you did!!!! its wrong.
2006-08-10 20:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by thambo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did mess up but the one thing you do have going for you is that you stood up and admitted to doing wrong Cheating is not a very forgivable thing to do to the one you have a relationship with.But since you did step up and admit to doing it then you really need to reasure your g/f that it was only a spur of the moment thing and try to prove to her that she is the one and only girl for you and that means a lot of things to say you are sorry you have to give her time to so she can try and settle down and hopefully she will be able to forgive you but just give her time.
2006-08-10 20:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody likes a cheater. But if she really loves you (and you can prove to her that you wont do it again) then she'll forgive you. She will be pissed off now... give her time to cool down. She must be feeling hurt now.. the worst you can do is to act nonchalant as if you dont care. Show remorse! Show emotion! Show that you've learnt your lesson. Tell her you love her.
2006-08-10 20:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by cuteangelshay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are NOT A HOE. No it wouldn't have been better to lie becasue she would have found out anyway. If you didn't tell her and she found out by herself she would be even more pissed because YOU DIDN'T TELL HER AND THAT YOU DID IT. She's still going to be very pissed at you but less pissed then you think
2006-08-10 20:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Puppy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should be happy that you are honest with her some people just like to lie and they dont tell,what kind of a person get angry for being told the truth ,yeh what you did was wrong and you are admiting to her that you are wrong tell her how sorry youo are and tell her that she is the only woman for you,dont give up eventually he will understand your position and forgive you.
2006-08-10 20:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by Faith Nelisiwe N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you messed up ok by cheating on her, but you did the right thing by being honest and admit your mistakes. She has all rights to be pissed at you. Give her time and show her that you will not do it again.
2006-08-10 20:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you have crossed the border in to cheating girlfriend. You are wrong but in your favor i can say you owned your self and was honest. Dont cheat again as its only hurts people
2006-08-10 20:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here it is most realationship experts say that it is best not to tell that stuff unless you are confronted or asked by your partner about cheating,or the relationship is ending so at that point you really have nothing to loss.
2006-08-10 21:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lieing to her would have made the matter worse.....now leave the matter to her...if she can forgive you then be honest to her all your life and love her like nobody has ever loved her......else if she decides to move on don force her cause she wont feel the same way for u as she used to
2006-08-10 20:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by topgun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter because lesbians make God mad & sad & all of the above!
Get a normal life,then ask about right & wrong.You are so wrong in so many ways!
2006-08-10 20:35:44 · answer #11 · answered by Frogmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋