as in the past i have posted many questions about my wayy older doctor who makes it an effort to flirt with me like its going outta style. as i have stated before i am not the one who started this flirting game, he did. and he continued up until my very last visit, i stopped going for a while because i had strarted to develope a crush on him due to all of the sexual undertoned comments he makes and all of the attention he gives me.as in compliments, phone calls, behavior a doctor normally would never give a patient, but rather a person they were interested in. i flirted back with him for the 1st time on my last visit and i made it an effort to stay away for the last 2 months. i have an appointment with him soon and i want to tell him that he is sexy and that i have a slight crush on him. even though he is 20 years my senior. would i be wrong to tell him, even though he started this whole flirty thing and has continued it up until now? he has to know that he is taking a risk doing it.
2006-08-10 20:21:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh and i also must remember to tell u that he wears a ring, but he never mentions a wife. he only brings up his kids when he takes me into his personal ofc.
2006-08-10 20:22:21 · update #1
he s a bastard a male pig who just want to screw you...better stay away from him and don get emotionally attached to him in anyway.......stay away it wud be better for you...else you ll suffer in the end ....
2006-08-10 20:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by topgun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see no indication of a future in your entertaining such a crush on your own physician. You are both inviting a regretful entanglement if that sort of teasing continues any further and why do you think this person would be interested in someone young enough to be his daughter? You have a professional relationship with this man. Do not let it become a source of embarrassment to you or to him. Find yourself a new doctor, possibly, one of the female gender. Never turn a professional relationship into a romance with someone who is neither your peer nor clearly, eligible for a relationship. His unseemly behavior would have given me a "red flag" to investigate this man's professional credentials,
2006-08-10 20:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 if u see a ring, that should tell u hands off. Men don't care if they are married and there marriage has grown dull they will cheat no skin off his back, girl u do have someting to lose we woman love with our heart and we love hard u are gonna get hurt. I don't know u but, why put yourself through those kind of head trips if he's not married that would be another story, he just looking for some goodies for free no strings attached don't seattle for crums when u can eat at the table. hope this helps u
2006-08-10 20:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by wisewomaninthewest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a female doctor. Or a doctor you can rely on without being distracted by such thoughts or feelings. If you had an unrequited crush, then maybe that would be an issue your doctor could help you work through. But if he is perceived to be the one initiating the flirting, then it is best to break your tie with him immediately.
2006-08-10 20:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by klunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok..honey buns..your 21..how come you go to the doctor so much? are you ok?
Well, in my opinion is, if you want a quick fling, then go head and flirt and see where it goes...be both know where it goes right? I mean, if he's wearing a ring..cmon'...It couldn't be any more clearer! he just doesn't talk about it since he wants to get in your pants!
You are young, I imagine gorgeous, so flirt..that's what we do*winks* its up to you where it goes next....just don't be stupid and let him get to your heart..unless you know he's clear and trustworthy.
Imagine how many hot patients he has...who he happens to flirt with also?
Ok. take care..and be good...stay out of trouble:)..just kidding!
2006-08-10 20:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by SuperGirls™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a married women, but i was in your shoes..only it wasnt a doctor...but just to let you know..if he is married..stay away...there is no harm in flirting..just dont go to far...you dont want to mess up a home with children...let him do it on his own..your probably a smart chick...dont get dumb just yet..you have your whole life for that...lol
2006-08-10 20:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to another doctor. So simple..
2006-08-11 00:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are he IS married, why not come out and ask him if you are interested. but if it turns out that he is, please, please, please don't turn yourself into a homewrecker. i think homewreckers are the scum of the earth. even if he is the one doing the advancing, you know better. let the guy get divorced first...
2006-08-10 20:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't do it. nothing good can come from it
2006-08-10 20:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋