What should u do if ur friend treats u like crap but u want to stay her friend b/c she invites u to cool parties and dinners?
2006-08-10 20:15:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i wouldnt be her friend
duh
2006-08-10 20:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay if she treats you like crap that is not okay by any means she is not a friend if she acts like your dirt only to be stomped onthen she's not a friend at all, just cuz she invites you to cool parties it kinda means ur using her maybe as much as she could be using you. You should find a friend that you guys would both go to cool parties, but won't treat the other like crap
2006-08-11 03:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by OkieOk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her, who knows why shes inviting u if she treats u like crap. My advice, go to these cool parties one more time and find new friends, there could be chance theyre jerks like ur "friend" if so (and u kno u would kno dont deney it) find a new friend to take u to parties where they may not be as ''cool'' as the old ones, but ur with a group of people that really want u to be there and i feel thats "cooler" than anything
2006-08-11 03:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by bim1960 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her like crap and invite her to dinner and pool parties. I don't know. I wouldn't be her friend in the first place.
2006-08-11 03:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a talk with her and discuss what's bothering you. If she shoots you down or keeps acting like a jerk, it's time to move on.
If you're uncomfortable with that, make connections at these parties and dinners. Make plenty of new friends and make sure they're good friendships, not just aquaintances. THEN have the talk with her. That way, if she still acts like a jerk or wont listen, you've still got friends who attend these functions.
That said, you really need to think about your life. Why would you keep a friend who treats you like crap because they take you to 'cool parties'? Are they really worth feeling like crap? Doesn't sound like it to me. You need to get your priorities straight.
2006-08-11 03:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by Eri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever happened to self confidence, dignity and high self-esteem. Sounds like your lacking all three to me (not trying to be judgmental). In life one must remember that he or she is numero-uno. Don't ever settle for less and sell yourself short. Just because you like being invited to cool parties and dinners doesn't mean you must pay for these events with your self-pride. If you let someone talk down to you and willingly accept it ( because she is a cool friend, overstatement) you are just as foolish as the person who is mistreating you. Believe me down the road you will meet and connect with someone(people) who respects and accepts you for who you really are.Take it easy. Relax awhile and wait for a true friend to really come along. With a friend like this who needs an enemy.
2006-08-11 04:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by patricia m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she treats you like crap and you wont stand for it anymore! Maybe she doesnt realize how you feel! And the friendship can continue. Also: Parties and dinners are not worthing the low blow to your self esteem. AND if shes treating you like crap purposefully... chances are shes talking about you behind your back to everyone else at the party.
Be strong. Stand up for yourself.
2006-08-11 03:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by cuteangelshay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be selective in picking and keeping friends. you must have heard, a friend is somebody who will be with you for ever, irrespective of your status. always analyse your friends. if you find something wrong and you are being misused and your feelings are hurt quite often, i dont think you must accept that person as your friend, just discontinue or cut that kind of friendship where there is absolutely no love or regards. you rule your friends by your affection and kindness, dont let them rule you by their nasty behaviour. dont attend any parties and dinners where you are not wanted, but invited because you are a scapegoat and a victim to be ridiculed. understand your strengths and be always strong not weak.
2006-08-11 04:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by shankari n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest u try to avoid her because she's not a real friend. Parties and dinners are not as important as having a real friend.U can get invited to them anytime but finding a true friend is hard. So, try to find other ppl to hang out with. I'm sure u'll be more appreciated.
2006-08-11 03:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she the only one who can invite you to cool parties?
try to find some nicer friends who will treat you good and in the end you'll have much more to cherish than cool parties.
2006-08-11 03:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you be friends with some one so mean and treats you like dirt,find yourself a new friend,you are staying with her because of dinners not because you want to .
2006-08-11 03:26:11 · answer #11 · answered by Faith Nelisiwe N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋