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Umm...I am turning 15 next month and I am pregnant. I am not sure i am going to like being a mom at the age 15.

how am i going to tell me mother and father???

2006-08-10 19:49:20 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

By the way am I scared for life ....I dont no what ot do I am freaking out. I am almost 5 month now..Am I going to Die???

2006-08-10 19:52:25 · update #1

my mom is going to kill me -crying in the dark-

2006-08-10 19:53:13 · update #2

46 answers

Sit them both down in the living room (in the next 24 hours) and TELL THEM.

2006-08-10 19:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 0 0

Relax.

Life is filled with changes. You are facing a big one.

Honestly, five months into a pregancy, I amazed thet your parents haven't suspected something by now. You had to have had morning sickess. You should be showing by now. Your bathroom habits have no doubt begun to increase in fequency.
I can only imagine what all you have been covering up.

That being said, I think it may be time for a rude awakening. You need to get your parent(s) in touch with your doctor, assuming your doctor knows that you are pregnant. You need to be on prenatal vitamins. You also need to start having physicals.

I am guessing that you want to raise this child but you are so young you will need a lot of help.

Go to the doctor and let them break the news for you. You will get yelled at eventually but at least it shouldn't be as bad.

Your parents will eventually figure things out for themselves. They will want to know who the father is. They will want to know how long you have known. That one you might slip by on. They will want to know what you think you are going to do now. They will even tell you what you should do. That is expected given the situation. You just have to whether the change.

Other changes may come but you will deal with those in due time. Not everybody gets pregnant when they plan to. Not evrybody lives a fairy tale life. Most people just do the best they can and hope that that is enough. It normally is. Normally people just come to accept your best efforts. If they don't so be it. You can't please everyone.

In the meanwhile, try and see the world as a bold adventure and this as your next great task. The time may come when you are thirty and your child is fifteen and you think it was all worth it. It can be. It can be all worth it.

Good Luck.

2006-08-10 20:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0 0

LOOK. There's a few options you can do. Be pro-active about this. Find out if there is a program called Planned Parenthood near where you live. They offer a large selection of staff and support groups to help you and educate you about having safe sex. They also have abortions for 1/5 what the average price used to be, and it's only based on your ability to pay, which means, if you can't pay, like you're below the poverty line or close, then you don't pay for it. they also have free condoms available to promote safe sex. But if you can't have an abortion, every fire and police station will take children to orphanages or adoption homes, and because she is a baby she will probably be adopted. BTW in the future, try using the birth control pill and always, ALWAYS use a condom. You take it 23 days of the month (I think...) and it has a plethora of positive side effects from clearing up acne to giving you a happier mood. Good Luck!

2006-08-10 20:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by theshrabster 3 · 0 0

You waited 5 months???

You need to tell them asap. You need the proper nutrition and make sure you are carrying a healthy baby and healthy yourself. Also to mention on what you going to do as keeping or adoption. You don't to keep your baby. You can give the baby up to an open adoption, where you choose the baby's parents and still be involved so you don't feel like you are abandoning.

Need their support. They will be mad. They are parents. That is what they do lol. Now you are going to understand what parenting is all about. What you doing to your parents is what your child can do to you.

How would you re-act and feel if your 15 year old daughter said she is 5 months along?

How going to tell? by saying "Mom, dad, I have made some choices and did some bad judgment calls. I need help in ways to solve it. I am pregnant and need some guidance on what to do".

2006-08-10 21:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0 0

Well if you wait any longer you will not have to tell them. But it is better you tell them. Just tell them. Hang on as they will not be happy but they willnot kill you. You are not the only 15 year old to be pregnant.

Tell you mom and go to the doctor. Worrying is not healthy for the baby. It can cause problems in their developement and growth.

Take a deep breath, go and tell them. You along with your mom and dad have a lot to decide and to talk it out. You are to young to have so much hangin on your shoulders. Parents are there to help support you during your bad and good times. You are no longer a child but an adult with adult responsibilities.

Good Luck and act like a good mother. Be strong

2006-08-10 20:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well, you need to tell them fast...15 is VERY young to be having a baby. How will you pay for it? Will the dad stick around? What about school? These are all things you need to think about. There is no easy way to tell your parents, they're going to be upset no matter what. Don't keep waiting though, if you decide to have an abortion, the earlier you have it the better. In the future, get on some birth control. Unsafe sex is dangerous, you don't know what guys might have. Good luck.

2006-08-10 19:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by diyta 4 · 1 0

For starters hun no you are not going to die. Secondly you NEED to tell your parents within the next 24 - 48 hours! Its OK to be nervous about this but remember that your parents love you and will support you and help you through tough times that is what they are there for to guide you . Although you are prolly scared right now there are many options out there for you , talking with your parents can help open many doors of opportunity for you . There is always adoption , who knows maybe your parents will take your baby in so you can still be there but have a normal high school and college experience, Give them a chance . and remember you wont die . good luck sweetheart!

2006-08-10 19:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Everyone this chick is lieing, she just asked a question and said she was 14 and had a baby and her mother adopted it now she is 15 5 months pregnant and dont know how to tell her mom!! You all are feeding into this sillyness. The girl is obviously bored and has nothing else better to do!!!!

2006-08-11 07:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by landscaperschick73 3 · 0 0

You're not afraid of telling her.
You're afraid of the consequences after you tell her.

You have reaped what you sown.

You had unprotected sex, in fact you had sex...period.

You're moms gonna scream, yell, maybe slap you around a few times, maybe throw you out of the house. Your dad might kill the A****** who F***** you and made you pregnant.

Or maybe, she might ask you a question - "Do you want to keep the baby or get rid of your problem?"

Maybe they're so open-minded and forgiving that they'll let you keep the baby but you got to learn to be responsible and get a job to support yourself and your baby once it's born.

Many many scenarios

You'll never know until you initiate the first step by telling the truth.

Good luck.

2006-08-10 19:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Please tell ur parents rite now,its hard and you will be in trouble but u need Medical attention and care. Your parents love you and if you're pregnant, they can't stay mad at you at the time u need them the most. Please tell the soon, its much better then them finding out when you're about to have it. I know this is very wrong to some but I think u should have an abortion, u are only 15...waay too younng. If youre parents are against that though, you're reputation will be trashed for good. Ask youre parents about getting an abortion. I know it takes away a life but better that then have the baby and mess up its life because its mother is too young to care for it. Just trust me on this one, I know youre scared but tell them immediately, do it for the sake of the baby that could be born. They rreaally need to know. Sit them down and tell them straight forward. youre young and pregnant and in need of help...they love u they wont neglect u. Good luck and stay strong. E-mail me if you need any help...Im here :)

2006-08-11 04:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Its going to be hard but you need to tell your mom if you are going to keep the baby and if not you need to get to a doctor ASAP and find out what your opinions are!! I know that there are a lot of facts at play and that telling your mom sounds so scary because of culture and life style but it has to happen because you can't just show up one day with a baby

2006-08-10 19:57:34 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Ta Loca♥ 4 · 0 0

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