ive put myself thru hell. I realized the whole time that the guy i was hooking up with didnt want more..he had other girls..he slept with other girls..but i still liked the attention he gave me. Why did i do this to myself now he is seriosue about a really pretty girl and i still love him. How did i let this happen to myself. I feel like a worthless embarrased peice of ****. Why did i do this. What can i do.
2006-08-10 19:45:42 · 9 answers · asked by kittykatB4 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I feel like a idiot knowing he is over me. And im not over him. Its the worst feeling i dont know if any of you have had it. What can i do to let him think ive moved on.
2006-08-10 19:53:07 · update #1
Remember life is long and you are young. Oh also that one day he will be a faded memory.
2006-08-10 19:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by J23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing I want you to do is to stop beating yourself up over this. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being in love with someone, even if they really don't care for you anymore. Love is something that everyone should have or want, and for you to have found it at least once in your life is a good thing (I would know, since I have never truly found it).
You liked this guy because he made you feel loved, made you feel special, right? Well, what's to stop anyone else from doing the same? I don't want to use the cliche "plenty of fish in the sea", but there is probably someone out there who will love you just as much or even more, and will give his undivided attention only to you. I know you still probably have feeling for this guy, and letting go will be hard, but letting go would be best in this situation, so that you can find another, someone who truly does care for you in the way that you deserve.
2006-08-10 20:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Little Miss Muffett,
So you wound up with a spider! He dropped down on his web while you were lonely and charmed you. Now you don't want to let him go, even though he was always spinning webs and seeing other chix.
You fall in love with the wrong guys. That's a game you learned in childhood. It won't be easy getting out of that habit. I'm afraid you are going to have a fight and stalk out in a huff and find ANOTHER spider right away.
Sincerely,
--cavalier gentleman
2006-08-10 19:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt do nothing wrong. you just fell in love with this man. And he cant do the same for you. I dont know what to tell you but everything happens for a reason. And you will one day figure it out. I am sure there will be a real man in your life soon again whom you will adore :) Good luck to you
2006-08-10 19:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I uderstand exactly where your coming from and the advice i can give to you is just live.. i know how hard it is.. but you can't beat yourself it will lead to depression.. i would suggest dat you tell him how you feel.. but then you might end up having sex or become friend, and i know how hard dat is. so try getting attention from other guys or jusy put your attention on sumthing else.
2006-08-10 20:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by sherline d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is like that. sometimes you just can't help it. but i think if you know that he doesn't like you at all. then forget about him and move on. life's much more than just that guy you know. i think that guy don't worth you being so in love with him too. cheer up! life will get better if you believe it wll =]
2006-08-10 20:14:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop living in the past, and start looking to the future. If you have strength, you can make it.
2006-08-10 19:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by kea33w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once day you will find a true love....don't be sad...Only god know what you do...Most important be patience.PRAY FOR THE TRUE LOVE
2006-08-10 19:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by mam1199 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to enjoy with urself....dont put ut happiness in some ones hand...and dont u ever call urself a piece of......
2006-08-10 19:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by Fren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋