What if your husband doesnt show enough affection or attention. I brought it to his attention numerous times and nothing changes. I really dont feel loved. What do I do
2006-08-10 19:42:14 · 9 answers · asked by druhill119 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hunny, More than ever, we at the end of the last century were finding ourselves with big houses and broken homes, high incomes and low morale, secured rights and diminished civility. We were excelling at making a living but too often failing at making a life. We celebrated our prosperity but yearned for purpose. We cherished our freedoms but longed for connection. In an age of plenty, we were feeling spiritual hunger. Pause a moment and think: What’s the most satisfying event that you have experienced since you have been knowing him? Transport your self to the past and think what he used to do for you that he loved, that make him fall in love with you, same thing for you. As you reversed your mind to the past, you will find the answer to your own question.
MY FAVOR AND I RECOMENDED TO ALL MARRIGES COUPLES.
Here is this web link, I loveddddddddddddddddddddddd. YOU MUST Read it together with your husband also. Please click in all the blue links. You will be amazed of things that we forget to do when we are married and what will happen if we forgot.
Good luck!!!
2006-08-10 21:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by TRANSLOPEDIA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have mentioned it several times and got nothing even telling him you dont feel loved then you should just face the facts hes not gonna change so you have 3 options
1-JUST DEAL WITH IT and get used to it
2-leave him and find someone more on your affection level or
3-get him to go to couseling about it--if thats possible.
I feel so bad for you honey,everyone needs affection and to feel love and appreciation and needed and wanted.plz let me know what happens and what you decide to do.e-mail me. the first answer is also a good idea.show him your question and the replys.dont give up on your marriage do everything you can to bring him around.hugs and kisses never hurt anybody.not much left to do but try our suggestions and any others before you think of option 2 !! but do what you have to to be happy
2006-08-10 19:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girrrrrrl...We are in the same boat. My husband and I just got married in May of this year. We have been together for a total of 5 years. He shows no affection. Do you have to ask for a kiss? Do you have to ask to make love? I do! I mean, come on...I have to ask to make love to my husband. Shouldnt that come in the manual? Its like he doesnt care right? Its gotten so bad that I have got feelings for someone else...someone who understands, ya know. Dont do that, because I regret that now. Dont give up..keep trying..Lord knows I am. here is my email address if you have anymore questions or if you want to talk. jackson_lift@yahoo.com..my name is ashley!
2006-08-10 19:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just deal with it until you can't deal with it anymore. For me, I'd leave. Guys like that has too much pride and rarely change. I've been there. It made me fall out of love with him. It made me want someone who can make me feel like a woman again.
2006-08-10 21:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband was like that and it took someone else noticing me and talking to me (just as friends) if i had a bad day my friend would buy me a card and get some of my fav candy, when my hubby saw this he was like what the hell LOL but (my friend was gay) my hubby didnt know that at the time but it worked, its not cool to play games but if you love your husband you will do what it takes to keep the love alive, send yourself some flowers or a plant and put from secret admirer on it, just dont get into yourself into trouble if you have good relationship he shouldnt get to mad hope you work it out good luck
2006-08-10 19:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him see your question and all the answers... See if he gets it then...
This same exact thing happened with me & my ex. It was very sad. Email me if you want to hear my story and why guys get like this. I'll respond later. Too tired to type alot...
i am a guy (36)
2006-08-10 19:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by warscoob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to commmunicate with him
Dont nag. Be patient. You model to him what you would like him to do to you. Some people dont know how to be affectionate. They have to be taught.
2006-08-11 02:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by chipmunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LITTLE ONE I LOVE YOU,GOD LOVES YOU.GET OUT OF SOMETHING YOUR NOT HAPPY WITH.THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR ALL.BE HAPPY,BUT FIRST LOVE THYSELF.
2006-08-12 01:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by lickit4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try this .
2006-08-10 20:21:33 · answer #9 · answered by jane c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋