AND...they cannot tell you why they filed in the first place.
Do you take them back? Would you want to know the reason they filed in the first place?
2006-08-10 19:09:51 · 8 answers · asked by Gothic Martha™ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whether you take them back or not is a life-altering decision. If you decide yes, then protect the future of the relationship by engaging in marriage counseling. That should be a mandate of the reconciliation. It might even be worth going a little extra and enrolling the errant spouse in personal counseling. Something set them on the wrong path, and it may be too private to discuss in font of the other.
At some time, it seems it would be reasonable to have an explanation. But that may never happen.
2006-08-10 19:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by kaylora 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sound like the question I asked a while back. NO do not take him back. He may be confused about how he feels about you, but he should not take it out on you. My hubby did the same thing, but only because he cheated and he felt guilty so he asked for a divorce, when I asked him why he took his love back, then he realized what he did and wanted me back. I took him back and I am not so sure I should have. It caused more problems. I do not feel it is worth it.
2006-08-11 02:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by lori.sims 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out of your life. You cn get over it one of these days.If he can tell it to you now, he will definitely do it again. In the first place, why should he divorce you. Either he's having 2nd thoughts about you or he' having an affair. Suffer for now rather than wait forever.
2006-08-11 04:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you about your situation for sure, but just so you keep an eye out, just in case, when my ex did this, it was because he was gay and he did not want to admit it to me. We did divorce.
2006-08-11 02:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by catintrepid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him you'll only take him back after first getting marriage counseling to figure out what is going on. He sound slike he has issues
2006-08-11 02:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by when and how 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah i would want to know as a matter of a fact they would have to tell me so it wouldn't happen again
2006-08-11 02:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
might had a girlfriend on the side and she dropped him . my opion?
2006-08-11 02:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must ask for the reason.
Here, please read more about Break-ups.
http://yourromanceguide.com/articles/break-up/
2006-08-11 03:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋