what's with these young girls?

Question

You know there id a LOT of minors on here tlaking about getting or being pregnant. What in the hell? Are you serious. Having a baby is a great responsibility. It is not fun and games this is a human life that a child themselves can't handle. There was a little girl up here 13 with 2 kids. Where are her parents? Here's a reality check get an education, a CAREER (not mc donalds) and a LIFE then try for a family when your married. Your wasting your whole life because you want to make some baby suffer. ( not for those who got pregant under other cir.) If you get offended then this message is for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

it could be a series of things, if you read through their profile all or most of the ?'s are about pregnancy. I'm 25 with children also

Well Rebekah you must not have read all of my comment b4 you answered, in quotations this excluded YOU.

good for you 6767// not many can say that. only the strong can survive.

Breanna, I didn't say I was a saint, this is not bad it's awful, selfish, immature, horrific, spiteful on somes behalf.

Elizabeth, i have no idea, you have no idea. You must be one of the ones I'm talking about then. yea it makes me feel good to speak my mind, No it might not change their minds, but they know how people think about what their doning, And yes I've been there, done that, gave birth got raped went through therpy the whole 9 on everything. So I do know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Answer 1

i agree i dont know how they want babies i am 21 and it is so hard..u want to go out there and have fun..but u cant...i had a baby at 19 it is so hard out there on ur own..ur life is done u cant go where u want...babies dont go to parties...i am 21 i got a 2 yr old and another one on the way unplanned...please if u aint pregnant and want a baby if ur under 18 get a babysitting job atleast u will be able to send them home

Answer 2

My nieces all had babies under 15. and I can tell you that my sister is highly to blame. First, she exposed them to so much as young girls that there was no way they were going to get around having sex young. Secondly, when her first one, she has 3, got pregnant, she gave her a baby shower and an ephidural so there was no pain involved, and she thought it was a grand event.(she is now 19 with 2) Her second one is 17 with one (3) and one due next month, and her third one just turned 16 in june and gave birth yesterday. The third one told my sister that if she did not start rewarding her for not having a baby and staying in school she was going to get pregnant, and she did. She felt like she was being left out becuase my sister was giving so much attention to the other 2 girls and their babies. I think it is all messed up. I am 33 and have 3 kids, my oldest is 11 and I told her if she got prengant a)she would have it b) she would not get so much as a tylenol during labor and delivery and c) I am not babysitting at all except for school or work (no parties, dating ect...) I have been preaching that since she could talk, and currently she says she doesn't want kids. Also, I had 100% natural childbirth which was videotaped, so she already has the best birth control commercial that she could have!!!!!THE PARENTS OF MINOR CHILDREN MAKING BABIES ARE 95% RESPONSIBLE FOR WHAT THEIR CHILDREN HAVE DONE. NO EXCUSES!!!!!!

Answer 3

These young girls Start off like this because of their Parents actions.. You can't sit there as an Adult and say you don't know why it has Happened it all started with someone else... It should be Directed towards People who are Parents, Teach your kid Values and a good start would be Making Marriages Something Valued instead of getting divorced and cheating and then they have no male role models in their lives and that's what happens 14 and pregnant, The whole trend started somewhere and it wasn't just now in today's society My great Grandmother Had her First child at 13 and shes 93 now .......Every one is doing this We all started our own Crap Don't try an say you never did anything Bad......

Answer 4

my sister had her first baby at 16 (he's 17 now and shes 34 with 5 kids.... one a year) We love those kids to death, but she had the hardest time being 21 raising 5 kids. 2 of them are 15 and 16 and IN REHAB because my sister was too young to teach them discipline she was a child herself. She is a great mother and she loves her children to death and I don't know if she'd do it all over again, but I do remember her always telling me "please wait to have sex don't ruin your life by having babies when youre a baby" I did and I'm glad I did what she told me.. 23 have a loving fiance and our first baby boy on the way!!

These kids don't know what they're getting into when they're 14 and getting pregnant and the first thing they think "awww yay a baby it will be so much fun" My aunt can't have children (she has diabetes) and imagine how women like that feel when they see this little kid getting pregnant who can't even take care of themselves. It ruins your life when you're 13,14,15,16 years old you don't know anything about life how can you know anything about a child?

Answer 5

I AM offended. At my age, 14 we are not ready for sexual activity. However, girls do it because that's the way society is. leave them the **** alone. do you expect a two year old to not want to touch a burning fire after you shove DO NOT TOUCH down there throats? Think about the girls with SEX ED shoved down there throats. you are directing this also at me,and every other young victim of rape. even the older victims too. because of some asshole i knew for an hour. I know I can't handle this. Thank God for my religion and my wonderful family, my baby has a home. And that sonuvabitch will never see her. Thats besides the point, but I am so wounded by what you are yapping about. I firmly believe in abstinence...but i understand where these girls are coming from.

Answer 6

I completely agree with you, but look at the filth on TV that kids watch. They want to dress like Britney Spears or whatever slutty dressing star is of the moment. The parents let them watch movies that are completely inappropriate for their age, the music they listen to is talking about sex, even toys are slutty (Bratz, MyScene etc.) On top of all this children are bombarded with images in magazines about how "beautiful" people look. They start having self esteem problems, and begin to think they aren't worth anything, and then some guy comes along and tell them they love them to get them into bed. "Well if I have sex maybe he'll love me" or as someone else was asking "If I have a baby will that make him love me more?" I mean what are we doing to our children to make them think that unless they are whoring themselves out they are worthless? I have two small girls and I worry everyday that I teaching them enough self respect that one day, when they grow up they can look past all the garbage, and see what really matters. I hope that I am teaching them to be strong, independent women who won't give in to the temptations of the world around them. It all boils down to self respect, mothers aren't doing enough to help their daughters love themselves, and so little girls feel the need to create something to love, a helpless little baby.

Answer 7

I agree It's these young girls think it's okay to have A baby they don't understand until it's to late that it's not A doll you can dress up in name brand clothes and show off it's A real life crying baby and it's not cheap or easy to take care of where are these parents? how did these little girls end up like this? I quess we will never know why.

Answer 8

I LOVE IT I LOVE IT I LOVE IT!!!! Personally I think these little hoochies are faking it to get their boyfriends to stay with them, OR HOPE TO GET PREGNANT SO THEY ARE STUCK. Its a ***** of a thing to do!

I hate little girls that act like that.

I am pregnant and If I have a daughter, sexually active or not, she will be on birth control.

if the children in todays worls act like this, What will the next generation be like?

Having children at 10, 11?

its sick and discusting.

I would put steal underpants on my daughter, WHERE ARE THE PARENTS???

Answer 9

that is harsh cause i got an education and i am going to college and i had my baby when i was 16 and i am 18 now so you really need to understand that some people just cause there young doesnt mean there not good parents and dont have an education i am a prime example...... i can understand cause that girl is 13 wat the hell that is a little young i wasnt even thinking of having sex but you thats thier life not mine....

Answer 10

I'm glad someone is taking a stand for this. I'm sixteen and I know there's no WAY that I'd be ready for children right now. Girls my age and younger need to wait until they become mentally mature enough for that much responsibility.